Aries!!!

yesterday i asked a question about me catching my boyfriend (ex) in bed with someone else, i wrote the whole story... anyway.. there is this guy that kind of been my secret admirer since i was in the relationship with that guy who cheated on me, i mean we only stared at each other, check each other out and never talk or meet up close, so my little brother is a friend with his little brother and he goes to his place sometime downloading movies on pendrive, i walk out on my cheating boyfriends since saturday on sunday i got all my stuff out of his house and move to my mum's , and on Monday i told my brother to ask my secret admirer for his phone number and he gave it to him to give me without hesitation and since then we have been chatting nonstop, last night we met late at night, we only talk and get to know each other more, before going we kiss and say good bye, but i can't get him out of my mind since then, i find myself smiling or laughing without reason!! do you guy think i'm going too fast? should i wait for a while be single for sometime? i don't know but he is nice, sweet, the opposite of my ex and i liked him since a long time ago.. what should i do...please no insult!!! thanks

but i need to get it out of my chest, on saturday 19th may 2012 it was my boyfriend's niece birthday she turn 14 years old and she throw a party at her parent's house and invited all her friends that went to school with her, my boyfriend is 25 years old and i have a 21months old boy with him, i'm 24... the mother of his niece told me that it's best if i don't come to the party because there would be lots of school girl there and as they know how my boyfriend are (womanizer) they didn't want any problem form me being mad or jealous, so i didn't go , but my boyfriend went there with our son and his mum... i was at his place alone then my mum call me and tell me that if i'm not doing anything go with them at a night fare i agreed and get myself ready... i try to call my boyfriend to tell him that i'm going with my mum i couldn't reach him, i texted him on my mum's phone... later that night he called me nad ask me where i was and started swearing at me and telling that i should have call him not text and hang the phone in my face, when the night fare was almost over my boyfriend called me several times but i did not pick up, it's like something told me not to... i went to his place and try opening the door it was lock from the inside with the key still on it so i could not use my key, i went around the house to get him to open the door when i open the window curtain i found him in bed with a girl both naked, the girl didn't even saw me seems like she was drunk, he didn't recognize it was me at first then when he look closer and saw me he close the window in my face and turn off the light, ashamed.. i went back to the front door and knock on his mum's door she opened it and when her mum open the living room door he was trying to make the girl escape but did not have time so he brought the girl back to his room and lock the door keeping the key with him, his mum didn't saw her because she was behind me, i was so mad and hurt and he was pushing me away telling me that i'm lying there are no one in his room and that i did not let him know where i was, he told me he don't need me and get out of his house, his brother was sleeping in the other room came out and he turn against me and giving his brother reason, my boyfriend treat me like dirt or a dog, trying to kick me out the house, dragging me out but i re-enter because my son was in that room and i told him to give him to me and he hit me in my face just because i saw him, that girl took out the window in his bedroom and run away, can you believe that while he was with someone else my son was in that room in his crib sleeping, i did' go away immediately because i told him to just give me my son and my stuff so i can go, he open the door when that girl already left i went in there get my boy and wait for my step-father to pick me up and i went to my mother... the next day i went there and take the rest of my stuff he was there sit on the bed and just look.. his mum was so devastated because i was her helping hand at the house and we got along well, she cried when i got in the car and left.. but what makes me happy is that i always knew he was cheating on me with so many girls and i forgave him so many times before, but i always told him i will see him in my own two eyes one day and this will be the day i move away from him forever, that day God bless me not to answer my phone and i went there unexpectedly, and i finally got the courage to leave his sorry a** that girl he was with is a 14 year old girl, from his niece party and his brother is a grown married man and he was with one too in the other room cheating on his wife.. that's why he defended his brother... but since that day until now i never cry one single tears it shocked me because i really loved that guy truly and things were great but i don't let this get to me, my family is my straight especially my son, i don't feel sorry for him not to grow with a dad and mum, i feel sorry that this is the father of my son and i wish he never treat a woman like that... God will bless me and he will someday realized what he have lost... do you gy think i did the right thing...any words of encouragement and advice is very much appreciated.. thank you!!!

every time that i'm about to be sick.(menstruation), i get all mad with my boyfriend it's the time we argue a lot and i get mad at everything, it could be what he says or do and i get angry at him, even for no reason, i feel less attracted to him and i want to be far away from him and this occur only with him at this period... why is that??? girl do you understand what i'm trying to say? any advice please.. no insult!!!

on Sunday afternoon i notice that my 19 months old boy was not passing urine because i didn't put him any diapers only a small short , his bladder was full i could notice his belly a bit firm, i showed it to my mum so i took him to the hospital because i got scared and a friend told me that it could be an inflammation, he was having a fever since Friday and i thought it was his teething process, when the doctor examine him he said that the problem was with his penis and he pulled back the skin of my son's penis, he cried a lot. he told me i was not doing it right but at the clinic in my district the nurse showed me another way of how to clean my son's penis and i was doing it the way she showed me, the doctor told me to keep doing like he did even if my baby cries because his foreskin was tight at the head and this was causing him to have difficulty peeing i think it's called phimosis or balanitis, but the next day i notice that his penis was red at the tip of his skin and a bit swollen and he didn't want me touch it, i got worried and took him again to the clinic in my district and the nurse told me that it's normal to swollen and red because the doctor pulled back the foreskin, she gave me neomycin cream and oral antibiotics and put cold compress on his penis.. but he cries every time he needs to pee and it seems that he is holding his pee and causing a full bladder, today i took him to the hospital again and the doctor told me that he cries when to pee because its like he got an infection on the tip of his penis and it hurts when passing urine but if i keep giving antibiotic and applying neomycin cream he should be fine if not refer him to a pediatrician so that they could suggest circumcision ... do you think he would be okay or please any advice will be very much appreciated if you've gone thought this...sorry if the explanation seems long.

i ask a question last week about my bf lied and got another woman pregnant... it turns out that that woman called me and lied to me because she wants me to leave my bf so the she could have him, my bf told me that this woman is lying just for me to move out, it's like she is obsessed, she texted me all day to tell me that my bf comes to her house, kneeled before her and beg her not to leave him, me and my bf got back together and things are going ok, i decided to forgive him because i love him, he is my baby-daddy, we've been together for 10 years and he told me the truth, i know he cheated on me with her and he don't deserve my time but anyways, yesterday that bi*ch text me and tell me that she abort the baby and that now i can be in peace don't think about it and hope that i'll be happy with my bf, i told her all that was on my mine and told her to stop bothering me, when i got home i showed my bf all the text my bf said that she is a motherf*cking liar and that if the baby was really his why didn't he keep it as a proof, she is doing this on purpose, anyway only God knows the truth, but that woman is so sick but there is always something about this case that i need to find out it's like i can't drop it because i want to know if my bf really told me the whole truth. what do you think?

i found out that he was cheating on me with that woman older than him a few months back and yet i forgave him and stayed with him because he said he has stop getting contact with her and promise me that he is going to stop, me being a fool i believe him because i love him, we've been together for 10 years and have an 17months old son, starting form this year i notice he had change somehow, he came hme early from work he changed his mobile number and was always around acting caring for me and his son, but i never thought that there was something worst going on, that woman called me and tell me that my boyfriend got her pregnant and that she is not keeping the baby because her man whom she live with doesn't know and that she don't want to have anything with my boyfriend anymore, she started telling me alot of stuff about what they have been to behind my back while i was at home caring for my baby, she asked for forgiveness and told me she didn't mean to hurt me and betray me, that it was my boyfriend who persisted for them to keep this going, he knew that she is pregnant and he told her to keep the baby and that he don't want to stop seeing her, that woman is 5 years older than him and have 2 kids with her man. what makes me mad is that my boyfriend has the guts to look at me in my face and tell me that this woman is a fu*king liar and that she told me that to ruin our relationship, she is jealous and wants me to leave him...i don't know what to do i've got no more courage, i've moved out of his house with our son for now thinking about my next step... i want to find out the truth and who is lying because i know also that that woman is a real b*tch and she will do anything to get what she want, she keeps on calling me mostly everyday to tell me that my boyfriend called her or texted her to ask her why did she have to tell me that and that she told him if she told me it's because she wanted me to know that she don't want anything more with him and that she wants a clear conscience..i would only like some advice please i haven't talked to my mum about this i can't tell her, but his family knows and his mum is so mad about this, i never knew that i could be hurt like this by him, my mind tells me to leave him but my heart still tells me to forgive him because i love him so much and we've been through a lot together, wish it was easy to move on and forget......HELP

last year was the worst year for me and my bf, we argued a lot, things were so wrong and we lived separatlety.... but starting from this year everything is ok i guess, he asked me to move in with him and our son, we are trying to make everything possible to work, when there is something wrong we talk about it calmly and fix our problems, but last night i saw a text on his mum old mobile phone dated 7 november 2010 which was last year saying "i will make you come over mum is sleeping, i will call you ok" its obvious that he took his mum's phone and texted that person so that she come over to his house... i don't know who that person is and i don't know if she really show up... but i felt so bad and i wanted to tell him about the text but i thought about it first... it was in the past and now we are doing great.. what would you do guys?? would you tell him and leave him? would you forget about it and move because it's in the past? i don't know how to react... he cheated on me and it is now that i found out!!! so sad and i love him so much, i've already move in with him trying to fix our relationship and now i found out that last year that night he texted someone else to come over at his place... please i need serious advice... thank you

last night at around 10 o'clock me and my boyfriend have a huge argument we end up swearing at each other, then i went to have a shower and we didn't speak again, i went to bed at around 11 o'clock looking over our 8 months old son which was sleeping at the time, later at around midnight when my son woke up i went to the living room and my boyfriend was not there, his friend came by and they went together in his car, he didn't tell me anything that he was going out i tried calling him and his phone was off, i called his friend's mobile he never picked it up, when i retry on my boyfriend's phone it rangs like four times and then i just hear he phone shut in my ear and his phone was switched off again, i locked the bedroon door where me and our son was sleeping ,i texted him and tell him to sleep in his brother's room which was not occupied, i heard him playing with the door handle of the room and when i looked at my time it was 2.15 am in the mornig, that means he was out all this time without me knowing where he was, he could have been cheating on me!!! because he did it once in the past but i forgave him because i did the same to him and we were working on our relationship, or i don't know, things were so great but i feel so bad right now i don't know what to do, i'm thinking about leaving his house and go back to my home with my son, never talk to him again and break up with him. this morning when we was awake he never talked to me at least not telling me where he was, nothing !!!!... not a single word..he went to work and i didn't say anything too..... waht would you guys have done in my place??? would you go back to his house and ask him question?? would you leave him?? give him another chance?? my day has started so bad and i feel so sad , i told his mum about it, i don't know if i did the right thing by telling her but i live at his place and he has no right to treat me like this even if we have an argument, i'm soo mad..please i need advice thank u!!

i've been with my bf for 8yrs, we had our first son last year 2010, we lived separatly before and we didn't spent much time with each other, usually he was with his friend all the time, partying, smoking, drinking, and cheating on me i forgave him, but lately we had a huge fight at my home and when he left i swore i would never go back with him again, my mum told him never to set foot at my place and i hated him that night, it was thursday. and on monday my mum's friend told me that while waiting for the bus to go to work early morning she saw him with a girl, i found out that he had sex with that girl in some bushes after a party at his brother's house sunday night. i felt soooo bad and cried alot even if we were not together it hurts so much... later that week he came over to see his son and he started talking to me and telling me that he is sorry about the fight, and when i confront him about what he did he deny it all saying it's a lie.... i told him to get away from me and he start crying to me and tell me he whole thruth, he was drunk and high, that girl was at the same place as him that night drinking and smoking too, he didn't do it out of love, he was angry at me and thought it was all over, he regret what he did. he told me that he wants me to come live with him at his place, well me i listen to him of course and i went to his place to live with our son.... i notice a big change in our relationship, he is always there with us, help with the baby, but my only problem is that i can't forget what he did and i bring it up everytime we have a discussion which make everything goes bad... i forgave him because i cheated on him too in the past but it was only out of revenge when he hurt me, but how can i let that go?

my baby is seven months now and it's been almost a month now i've been having cracked nipple on both side and it hurts as hell every time i feed him and it doesn't seems to be healing because he don't drink any other milk formula except breast milk, before that it was all ok, sometime it's itchy on my areola and its dry all the time, when i apply vaseline on my areola the skin comes off, then become dry again, should i stop breastfeeding him until it heal, what do you think is wrong!!! there is no discharge, only the crack on my nipple and it is dry on my areola, help and advice plz... thanks

On sunday i drank a little bit of smirnoff raspberry vodka for the first time since being pregnant with some friends, i only had two glass and i put lots of lemonade instead of the alcohol, i'm 7 months pregnant, i have drank beers and wine before but not always, will that harm my baby in any way, any body can advice me please???

My boyfriend cheated on me twice since i got pregnant, the first time was with a school girl age only 14 or 15 years old, i forgave him because i thought about my baby and his future , i didn't want him to be like me growing without a father, and i loved him alot, but now he went and did it again with another women thinking i'm a fool and i would not find out about it, so i decided to leave him and be alone with my baby, of course he came to me telling me that he have nothing with that girl, he love me and wants to be with me, but i know that he is lying and if i don't make a move now me and my son will be miserable for the rest of our life, i texted that girl too and gave her a piece of my mind and she told me that she have nothing to do with him and that she have known my boyfriend for two days only and that he is all mine, she is such a b**** thinking that i'd fall for that, anyway do you guys think i did the right thing , we've been together for 8 years and it's already hard for me to be without him, what can i do to forget all the good times and be happy, and being pregnant with his child will make me suffer even more, help!!!

I'm 17 weeks and five days pregnant and before that everything was fine between me and my boyfriend, but now that he knows i'm pregnant it's like he is more distance, he spent more time with his friends, he could be cheating on me, he comes home late, he lied about where he have been, he goes out more often, and when we talk about it he says that i'm getting nervous and jealous over nothing and it's all because of the pregnancy, but i don't think the problem here is with me, am i right???

no symptoms, is it too soon to get the symptoms, i did the test at the hospital and it's positive.

One of my friend is in this situation and she can't dump the guy because she know that it will crush him, please can i get some advice so that i can convince her that she won't be happy and let go.

I did not enjoy my weekend at all, my bf got angry with me on thursday just because i ask him where did he get money to put in his phone ,because before that day i ask him to lend me some but he told me he didn't have, so i guess the next day he got paid and there was no reason for him to be mad, then on friday i was waiting for him so that we could talk, he never showed up, he did not answer my text or call, on saturday we were supposed to go to a party together, i didn't see him and when i called him later he told me that he is going alone and he did, leaving me hanging, he came over to my place late in the morning, drunk, slept the whole day, then start asking me to forgive him, that he was mad and didn't want to hear me arguing with him. Is it all my fault?? . thanks

I lost my baby three months ago, due to heavy bleeding and pain in the ovary area, i was looking forward for my baby but it didn't work out, it's been three months now i'm still trying and nothing happened i don't know why its taking too long, but every time i see a pregnant woman passing by i get so jealous and hurt, i wish that it was me and my boyfriend who's been very supporting is affected by it too, i just wish that i was still pregnant so that i would not be feeling like this. how can i get pregnant fast, me and my bf have been having sex almost everyday, i'm so desperate.

The mother of my three little kittens ate poison at my neighbor's house and die leaving me with her kittens, i just need some help about how to take care of them, how to nourish them, i've been giving them milk, yes but i need more details since it's the first time i had to take care of small kittens by myself. thank you i advance.

because i can't let go of the past, i love him so much, he is my first true love and i don't want to know how my life will be without him, but in the past we had lots of problems, he cheated, makes me worried, disappointed and very sad, nobody is perfect, he apologized and i forgave him because of what i feel for him, and now when i think that he have changed, (we live with each other) every time we argue i always brought up the past and it makes matter worst, he tells me that if i don't let go our relationship won't work. i know he loves me and i just wish that i can forget the past and try to be happy, i know i acted stupid by forgiving him, any advice please, thank you.

last sunday my boyfriend and i had an argument and were not talking, i went to the beach in the afternoon with my sister and brother and did not tell him anything, he went to the beach with his friends too, (separately), that night he did not come to my place, he decided to go to the disco with his friends without telling me, i learned about it yesterday,and on monday i tell him that if i found out that he was lying i will do the same, he told me that he was at his friend's house drinking , but when i asked him and he lie to me at first, i asked him over and over again when he finally tell me that he did go, why would he lie, do you think he is hiding something from me?, but he is going to pay big time, i'm going to do the same thing , not cheat, but i will go and not tell him anything, do you guys agree with me???