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my boyfriend lied to me and got someone else pregnant?
i found out that he was cheating on me with that woman older than him a few months back and yet i forgave him and stayed with him because he said he has stop getting contact with her and promise me that he is going to stop, me being a fool i believe him because i love him, we've been together for 10 years and have an 17months old son, starting form this year i notice he had change somehow, he came hme early from work he changed his mobile number and was always around acting caring for me and his son, but i never thought that there was something worst going on, that woman called me and tell me that my boyfriend got her pregnant and that she is not keeping the baby because her man whom she live with doesn't know and that she don't want to have anything with my boyfriend anymore, she started telling me alot of stuff about what they have been to behind my back while i was at home caring for my baby, she asked for forgiveness and told me she didn't mean to hurt me and betray me, that it was my boyfriend who persisted for them to keep this going, he knew that she is pregnant and he told her to keep the baby and that he don't want to stop seeing her, that woman is 5 years older than him and have 2 kids with her man. what makes me mad is that my boyfriend has the guts to look at me in my face and tell me that this woman is a fu*king liar and that she told me that to ruin our relationship, she is jealous and wants me to leave him...i don't know what to do i've got no more courage, i've moved out of his house with our son for now thinking about my next step... i want to find out the truth and who is lying because i know also that that woman is a real b*tch and she will do anything to get what she want, she keeps on calling me mostly everyday to tell me that my boyfriend called her or texted her to ask her why did she have to tell me that and that she told him if she told me it's because she wanted me to know that she don't want anything more with him and that she wants a clear conscience..i would only like some advice please i haven't talked to my mum about this i can't tell her, but his family knows and his mum is so mad about this, i never knew that i could be hurt like this by him, my mind tells me to leave him but my heart still tells me to forgive him because i love him so much and we've been through a lot together, wish it was easy to move on and forget......HELP
you are all right especially you clueless, but it's easier said than done!!! you don't know that feeling until you're in that shoe... i know he doesn't want to hurt me but there's something loose in his mind that makes him act like a dog, i have spent most o my life with that guy , i'm use to him, we had a lot of dreams, fun, bad moments. how can i get the truth from him, that woman told me to ask him to meet the three of us together so that she can shut him up i know he'll hate that, but i'm going to do it, i'll tell that sl*t to meet me somewhere where he could come and meet her then ill show up, he'll have to talk and decide, that woman told me that she will not keep the baby but she wants him at least to admit their fault and move on, that's want i want so help me God.
thank you so much vkitty, i move out for now just to give a little space between us even if it's hard , he came by my house though too be with his son for a while then he sits there looking at me waiting for me to talk to him but i never do so he just left, i just need him to tell me something at least the the truth, but he can't do it like he once said that if he tell me that he cheated he is scared that i would take his son and move out, so i'll give him time to man up about this situation and face me with dignity, because really i can't start thinking about my life without him and when i look at his son who is so use to him it breaks my heart. thank you
5 個解答
- 9 年前最愛解答
Stop talking to this other woman. Calling you once might be unburdening her conscience. Calling you all the time to say he is supposedly calling or texting her is a manipulative way to try to hurt you and get into your head. Her motivations are suspect. You can't believe this woman, she is a cheater and a liar, sleeping with your boyfriend and cheating on her own. Now she's possibly pregnant? She's evil. Tell her thanks for the info, now stop calling. If she persists, threaten to tell her boyfriend whats going on.
This does NOT, however, mean your boyfriend is telling the truth. I think there has been a serious breech of trust that will take years to work through. Having a child together makes it so much more difficult, or I'd imagine you would already be in the process of moving on. But, you do a have a child, and no matter what the outcome, his dad is in your life, one way or another. If you arent ready to give up, you will have to forgive him. It's very hard to do. Not only did he cheat on you, he cheated with this horrible woman. I think you are right to have moved out for now, but only you know what you can and cannot accept from this man, and you need to spend some time figuring out what exactly that is.
資料來源： Just because you love someone, doesn't mean you have to be with them. You could waste the best years of your life waiting for him to be the person you need him to be. You need to spend some time on self analysis and ask yourself why you think you don't deserve to be happy and treated with respect. - 9 年前
I didn't read anything aside from the title and all I can say is: MOVE ON.
The fact that you are still calling him your bf is pathetic. Sorry to be harsh, but I mean really! What else do you need? For him to murder someone? Will that finally give you the lady balls you need to get over this low life?
Why on earth do you want to be with this guy? The fact that you are finding it hard to move on is utterly dumb. Any guy who lies and cheats is automatically not worth your thoughts or tears! To hell with this guy!!!
Sorry to get all riled up here, its just that it irritates me to see a girl being dumb over a guy. Is this really what you are worth? Do you deserve a guy who has cheated and gotten some whore pregnant? Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you are really going to stoop so low to be with this guy. If I knew you I'd slap you across the face and find this low life who you call your "bf" and kick him in the nuts.
Enough said....
- 匿名9 年前
why do you believe someone you barely know? you have been with this guy for like 10years and you don't trust him after what he said? relationship is all about trust. give him a chance to prove his love. i don't have experience in these stuff but breaking up a long time relationship is hard. no one else would know you better that him. listen to what your heart says.
- 匿名9 年前
DUMP HIM NOW!
