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my boyfriend is a bad liar?
last sunday my boyfriend and i had an argument and were not talking, i went to the beach in the afternoon with my sister and brother and did not tell him anything, he went to the beach with his friends too, (separately), that night he did not come to my place, he decided to go to the disco with his friends without telling me, i learned about it yesterday,and on monday i tell him that if i found out that he was lying i will do the same, he told me that he was at his friend's house drinking , but when i asked him and he lie to me at first, i asked him over and over again when he finally tell me that he did go, why would he lie, do you think he is hiding something from me?, but he is going to pay big time, i'm going to do the same thing , not cheat, but i will go and not tell him anything, do you guys agree with me???
Mr. Gray same goes to you 'STFU',
when i said disco i meant the discotheque.
Thanks for your answer all of you even if it's rude, but it's nice that you answer.
13 個解答
- 1 十年前最愛解答
ok coming from a guy... he is lying cuz he does not want you to get mad.... and he fears that if he were to just tell you that he went to a party that you may suspect that he cheated on you. so that may be why he is lying other than that i would have no clue as to why he would be lying unless he already is cheating on you.
- Jackson NLv 51 十年前
Well, I don't usually tell people who to blame, but I can tell you there are two explanations for his behavior:
1) He lied because he was hiding something from you, or
2) He doesn't have anything to hide but thinks he can't tell you he went to the disco whether he did anything or not.
You may want to ask yourself some questions. I'm going to assume that at least a part of you actually likes this guy and sees the relationship as something possibly worth saving. If he is actually hiding something, this may not be a relationship you need to worry about. If he feels that you don't trust him, you may want to ask yourself why he feels that way. Is he right, or is he just thinking too much? Did you ask him where he was Sunday night after you already knew he was actually at the disco? If so, that may be part of the problem. Do you have a relationship where it's unacceptable to go to a disco? If you're both okay with that rule, then I suppose it's fine, but if you trust each other, I don't know why it's necessary. Do you, in fact, not trust him? If you don't, why not? Should you trust him? If he's not trustworthy, he's not worthy of you either. If he is trustworthy, then it's only fair to treat him with trust.
- 1 十年前
I think you might be over thinking things.
Okay, your boyfriend lied to you, maybe there is a reason & then again, maybe there isn't. I lie sometimes just because I want to half of the time.
But anyway, sinking down to his level and being secretive just because he did it isn't going to make ANYTHING better in your relationship with him.
Just talk to him, don't pester, but talk. Don't accuse him of things as he'll feel as if he's being attacked, either. Act like it's not getting to your head and maybe he'll tell you the truth on why he lied to you about going to the disco because he'll be comfortable and not think that you'll blow up at him.
((people go to discos these days? first i've heard of it.))
- Ron SrLv 71 十年前
You sound like a 13 year old. If the guy lied to you there was a reason why, If he had nothing to hide then he would not have lied, find some one who is truthful.Dump the lying fool.
- 匿名1 十年前
No, you should either trust him, or end the relationship! You shouldn't play games! That's just silly.
- 1 十年前
there is peace because you are not reacting yet, and if there is a fire on both sides obviously you both are going to get apart.
- sharonsmineonlyLv 61 十年前
pretty obvious he didnt want to get "in trouble" guys lie when they think it will be easier.
- 1 十年前
it definetly sounds like he is hiding something.... maybe he didn't do anything horrible but maybe there is someone else or something happened
