I'm 7 months pregnant with a baby boy and i've just left his cheating dad?

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My boyfriend cheated on me twice since i got pregnant, the first time was with a school girl age only 14 or 15 years old, i forgave him because i thought about my baby and his future , i didn't want him to be like me growing without a father, and i loved him alot, but now he went and did it again with another women thinking i'm a fool and i would not find out about it, so i decided to leave him and be alone with my baby, of course he came to me telling me that he have nothing with that girl, he love me and wants to be with me, but i know that he is lying and if i don't make a move now me and my son will be miserable for the rest of our life, i texted that girl too and gave her a piece of my mind and she told me that she have nothing to do with him and that she have known my boyfriend for two days only and that he is all mine, she is such a b**** thinking that i'd fall for that, anyway do you guys think i did the right thing , we've been together for 8 years and it's already hard for me to be without him, what can i do to forget all the good times and be happy, and being pregnant with his child will make me suffer even more, help!!!

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I think you did the right thing why not finish it now and get the hurt over with instead of feeling this hurt over and over again because once a cheater always a cheater! It's going to be hard raising this baby on your own but you can do it have faith in yourself, and also do your want your baby boy to grow up seeing his daddy being unfaithful time and time again? That's not a good example for any child to see.... I wish you all the luck, and congrats on the baby

Woody · Answer

To make things mentally easier, forgive and forget. Most people usually skip the forget part, which leads them winding back with the same prick that hurt them. Forget who you were with and start over, by concentrating on what the kid needs when he is brought into the world. Once everything is squared away with your child, then think about dating. If you find yourself a guy who can treat the kid like his own, youve done pretty good. Look out the welfare for the two of you, and you will be as you wish to be.

Also, my parents divorced when i was younger, and things were better when my parents split, especially since i knew they hated  each other. I could tell from as far back as i remember, and being able to feel that kind of resentment as a kid is my most painful memory.

Erika · Answer

Jesus you obtained your self a leech there. Just be praising god you under no circumstances obtained a preggo. You can evidently see she under no circumstances cherished you within the first position and nonetheless does now not love you currently. Also good performed on having the balls to mention no, she appear's just like the consumer form and person who could check out blackmail for her finish target i.e. the little one aid card. Next time you notice her inform her good performed it recking her possess existence, could be a laugh looking her holiday down AGAIN with all her stretch marks and her dishevelled ****.

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u cant really blame the other girl. maybe she didnt kno about u. or she did only known him for 2 days. but i think u should leave him, becuz he did cheated on u twice, especially when ur are pregnant with his baby, but remember he threw 8 years of his life with you just for a piece of booty. NOT YOU. i think u forgave him, he will do it again, and again. once a cheater always a cheater.

Cristina · Answer

dont even worry about him. just put child support on him. he deserves it anyways. you did the right thing. your son and you wont e miserable for the rest of your life just because you arent with him. a way to forget about him is just focusing on your son. just looking at your belly should make you happy.... watch your baby move, that will make you much happier. and enjoy every moment you being pregnant because you wont be pregnant ever again with the same baby.

burst into flames now · Answer

I think you were very generous to forgive him the first time. My question is, are you sure he is guilty this time? He could be telling the truth. I think you should pray about it and ask God for direction.

I'm 7 months pregnant with a baby boy and i've just left his cheating dad?

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