Nonya

I'm a virgin. It's not that I don't want to do dirty stuff I just have never wanted to with the people I have been with before. My boyfriend had literally done everything, and I mean everything, with his ex girlfriend. I don't really know how to feel about that. We're very vocal about sexual things to each other and I find myself telling him things I have never told anyone else before. But since he's done all this stuff with other girls I kinda feel like I might have to do these things also. What do you think of this situation and do you have any advice to make me feel better?

I've only had my rat a few months and I think his new mood swings and aggressive behaviour is because of teen angst. Is this possible? Will he ever go back to being the sweet little ratty he was?

So my rat and I get along very well. I've had him since he was about a month old and he's quite big now. We have had no real problems in the past, I mean when we were play fighting as we always do he bit me and made me bleed a couple weeks ago but I chalked that up to me being too rough with him. But twice now he has freaked out if I touch his back, sides or neck. Then he will turn to his stomach and he won't mind me touching him there. The first time I did it I just thought he was playing so I carried on tickling his sides but he was screaming so I stopped. Then I saw that he was breathing really heavily and I didn't know what to do. He calmed down after a few minutes and I could touch him again. The same thing happened again today but when he started doing it I tried to look and see if there was any specific spots that he didn't want me to touch then I left him alone. There was no specific spots, just his whole back. Then he flips onto his belly like he's trying to protect his back. Why does he do this and is there anything I should be concerned about? He's literally fine now so I have no idea why he just started freaking out. Any help is welcome.

The girl you like dating a super hot guy or the girl you like dating your best friend and your best friend doesn't really like her?

So there's this boy called Craig. I call him boo and say we say I love you to each other and we send hearts forward and back and emojis ❤️😍😘 and we're very flirty. We also argue quite a bit but once after we fought he said: look I need you I want you. You're the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm not the only one who thinks this guy obviously likes me, right? I do really like Craig and he's my best friend but he has a girlfriend. He did tell me once that he loved me as much as her. Their relationship has been on the rocks for about a month and they have only been dating for 2 months. I do think that he might have feelings for me even though he's not a player and would never tell me that whilst they're still dating. Their relationship is very much like a friendship at this point. I did ask him if he liked me and he said no but if he has a girlfriend then he would say no anyway right? WHAT DO I DO? How do I deal with this situation? I really really want him and I don't think it's a crush anymore. I think I might love him.

So I'm asking this because I feel like my whole life is a roller coaster. I'm either crying on my room, throwing things around and generally being depressed and angry, or I'm unusually happy, bouncing (yes, literally) around my room and laughing my head off for no reason. Also, when I'm in a sad state, I don't exercise and I tend to eat more junk food. When I'm in a happy mood, I can't stop being active and happy and jumpy. Again, I will literally bounce around my house like a lunatic. Or a 5 year old. Do you think I may have bipolar?

Since my auntie died, my mother has been on a downwards spiral. First, she started getting a lot of piercings. Then, she started going to the gym every day (I have my suspicions that she had an eating disorder). After that, it all went to ship. My parents split. My mother acted like she didn't give 2 shirts and I have my suspicions that she was running off with another man whilst my dad was still in the house. She would stay out nearly every night. When my dad finally left, she told me that she was newly seeing this man from her work. The reason why I believe that she had been seeing him for a while is that she was already having sex with him. She was buying lingeré for months before my dad left. I also have found her lube and her handcuffs for their kinky sex! Now, she has gotten another piercing, and she got a stomach tattoo! She is also planning to get a new tattoo. I hope this isn't her new phase because if so, she will get one she regrets. Her and my dad never did stuff! She never wore flashy lingeré like she is now! She also has stopped acting like a mother altogether. She doesn't cook, she just buys a microwave meal. Everything I do I get ridiculed for. My older sister, who is 19, just listens and believes anything my mother says. I'm asked to do every flicking thing! Why can't my sister do any work instead of sitting on her bony **** all day! Can you please tell me what to do in my situation? I'm finding it extremely difficult at home and I need some help or advice.

My rat is still quite young and Extremely light. I lose him all the time in bedsheets and stuff. Anyways, his favourite game is 'bounce' where I put him between my legs and pull the duvet so he gets launched into the air and then comes down. He absolutely loves this. I usually do it a couple of centimetres in the air, high enough so he still likes it but he is safe.

So he scratched all up my lip trying to get inside my mouth so he can lick my teeth. He likes licking my teeth but I'm trying to stop him doing it. So I am in quite a lot of pain on my lip.

I honestly didn't realise my own strength. I launched the rat high into the air, off my bed and onto the floor. He is t hurt at all, he is even still licking me. I think he might have liked it.

I scared me so much though. Am I a bad person? I cuddled him after and he just was licking me and cuddling like he usually does.

So I was feeding my pet rat some popcorn I got from the pet shop (safe for animals) and I tested them, as I do with all his cool treats. Most of his treats are healthy for humans as well as rats, like banana chips and popcorn.

I have tried his Apple flavoured popcorn before and it tasted ok, but I wasn't too big a fan so I only ate one.

It's pet food after all.

I was just given the banana popcorn for free from the pet shop and I can't stop eating it! I was feeding my rat some and I tried one, then 4, then more than half the packet. I'm eating them as I type!

Are these ok for me to eat and should I buy a packet for myself?

I m home nearly all the time, and I love his attention. I can play with him at his most active hours (early hours of the morning) and he is very licky and so affectionate. He wouldn t fight another rat. He s just a baby, and noises frighten him. I know that people advise getting more than 1 rat but my baby seems fine on his own because he gets a lot of attention. The pet shop sell rats very quickly but she can get new ones very quickly also.

I m not asking if I should get a new rat!

Will Skittles be ok if he is the only rat as long as I hold him and show affection a lot?

So I just cut up my moms boyfriends shirt. Does someone have a witty comment to say? I need them fast!

My grandma is always smoking in her house and I'm getting a rat soon. Either I risk the rat being in the house with the smoke tomorrow or I will have to get it the next day. But the problem is that I only live with my mum part time and I don't want the rat to be lonely or without fresh food and water when I'm not there. And it's not just weekends. My mum sometimes has to work late in the week and I have to go to grandmas.

It's her house, so I don't want to tell her what to do. I just don't know what to do!

All advice is welcome, except for sarcastic or jokey ones

Ok I'm not looking for attention, I just need help.

Now we have got that out of the way, I can tell you my story:

I'm 13 and I hate myself. I hate my body, I hate my face, I hate everything about myself. I haven't been to school properly in months because I have Anxiety. Now I am starting to think I have depression too. I cry all the time and I'm so scared of everything. I hate everyone, either because they have let me down or because I think they are judging me. Some days, I am ok with my body, the some days I feel unbelievably fat. I am unbelievably fat. I'm overweight, not obese, yet I wish I was skinny so bad. I have tried to lose weight but it never works. Food is my worst enemy. I try and starve myself then I eat more to make up for it. Even eating the right amount of food makes me hungry, and I always feel like I need to eat. My parents have pretty much openly said I'm fat, my underweight 19 year old sister has a smaller waist than I do and no matter how much exercise I do I can't lose weight. Last year I skipped lunches and lost weight and I know I have gained a bit more weight since then. What people don't understand is that I WANT to starve myself. I hate the feeling of hunger so I always give in, it's worse than cracking my head open to me. I look at my sister and my mother and they are like sticks. My father isn't fat. He's average! So why am I so fat?

My sister and I don't really get on. It's ok, there's a big age gap in between us so that's natural. Also, she left home without telling me when she left school. She only just came back. She is 19 and she is stuck up my mother's ***!

I went to the shop with her to get electricity. Even though I was the one who kept the money safe and told our mother so we could go get electric for her, she blamed ME for not getting the key, resulting in us having to go back home. When we got home, saying I had told her previously that I had a bad belly ache, I asked if she could go to the local shop by herself. She had also given me a headache stating the time every other minute and telling me which way to go, when I was the one who has been here for years! What I'm trying to say is, she made a huge fuss about not going to the shop if I'm not going to the extent that our mother had to rise from her bed to stop us arguing. Then my sister told her about how I said I wasn't going to the shop and our mother said that she would go get changed and go herself. I don't know how that would make the situation any better as the only reason my sister kept irritating me about the time is because she didn't want our mother to not have any electricity when she rose from bed to get ready for work. After that, whilst mother was going out the door, she told mother she was going too.

I am going to tell you my story.

I am quite a smart girl, with above average levels in everything. I joke around a lot but recently my (Undiagnosed) Anxiety has made me housebound... Going to school on a normal day stresses me out! I have horrible sleeping habits because I can't switch my brain off in a night. I am petrified of my wardrobe! I keep thinking there is somebody inside it. Sometimes the fear isn't that bad but sometimes I panic! My teacher thinks have panic attacks. I think I do, too. What I don't think I have is ADHD, ASD or Asbergers. I know ADHD and Asbergers are on the Autistic Spectrum but whatever. I know I have bad anxiety problems. That's not really an uncertainty anymore...

Anyways, I looked on the NHS website for symptoms. I'm going to tell you why I think I don't have ASD in each point and then you tell me if you think I have ASD or not.

Preferring to avoid spoken language

This is SO wrong! I speak more than anybody I know! I can never keep my mouth shut!

Speech that sounds very monotonous or flat

Again, i'm always laughing and making jokes. My voice isn't flat at all! I can't keep the damn thing straight!

Speaking in pre-learned phrases

Everyone speaks in pre learned phrases from time to time, that's why phrases exist!

Seeming to talk at people, instead of a two way conversation

I crack jokes... that's kind of talking at people but I crack jokes to hear people's reaction. I like talking to people. It keeps me sane.

I think my friend Abbie likes my BFF's boyfrien

Santa might get you it <3

This isn't a troll I wanna make someone happy this Christmas!