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? 發問於 Society & CultureReligion & Spirituality · 8 年前

Is anal sex adultery in God's eyes ?

I've been dating a pastor for over 3 months now. Everything is ok, except I have a huge issue with adultery, i.e. sex before marriage. He is also currently pure in God's eyes, in his 34 years he never had sex. Everything is great, except he gets turned on at times and tries to persuade me, that anal sex is not adultery and its ok even before marriage. He even got a bit rough once, and during making out he forcibly put a finger in my anus, which really hurt me and I told him to never do that again. Im a little confused, becaue technically, anal sex should not be adultery and I really want to make my bf happy.

So my question is twofold:

1. Is anal sex before marriage adultery ?

2. Should I pray for the time my bf put a finger in my butt ? Am I still considered a virgin ?

Thank you,

God Bless

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 年前
    最愛解答

    No. Anal sex is not adultery. Its not a sin. Its ok to have anal sex before marriage.

  • jefferyspringer57@sbcglobal.net
    Lv 7
    8 年前

    adultery; which one of you is married?

    Fingering the anus eliminates virginity? No.

    God told us to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis several times) so sex before marriage is not becessarily a sin. Man sees 5 things; God sees 6 (why) 1 Samuel 16:7.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 年前

    1. Depends on who you ask. Some will say it is, some will say it isn't. Either way, if you don't want to do that with him then don't. He is trying to force you or at the very least persuade you to do what he wants.

    2. God won't hold it against you that your boyfriend did that. It was him, not you. And yes you're still a virgin. Now you just need to figure out if the relationship with this guy will work out without him trying to deflower you.

  • dewcoons
    Lv 7
    8 年前

    Adultery is when a married person has any type of sexual relations outside of their marriage. So two single people can not commit adultery. Instead it would be called fornication. And yes, that is a sin. Any sexual act - not just intercourse - before marriage is considered fornication and is a sin.

  • 匿名
    8 年前

    Never trust a pastor or a priest.

  • ?
    8 年前

    Anal sex is an abomination in God's eyes.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 年前

    So let me guess, is he against homosexuality? Because it's pretty much the same thing there.

  • ✟Ї ḓ◎ᾔ'т ḟ℮ℯℓ ṧ◎ ℊ◎ø∂╰☆╮
    Lv 7
    8 年前

    You are a man right?

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