Do all men have "friends with benefits"?

I think a lot of men don't do that, if they really love their partners then they would be loyal. If they said to me that they found that acceptable then my reply would be, 'oh, so it's ok for me to **** other guys while in this relationship then?'. If their allowed as far as I'm concerned I am too, then dump his *** because that's not what I want out of a relationship. Men that do that are just dirty and might as well be single because they don't love their partner and they want to live a single man's lifestyle.

As for your boyfriend talking to his ex like that, unacceptable in my books. I'm not strict in a sense that he can't be civil or friendly with his ex but not if it's more than that, I won't accept flirting with an ex or anything more because that makes me uncomfortable and he should respect my feelings. I would tell your boyfriend to stop doing that because it's unfair and uncomfortable and ask, would he be happy if you did that with your ex. I wouldn't marry someone with such a issue hanging over, must be sorted before that happens.

What do you mean by "talking with his ex behind my back in a not very friendly way"? Either way if it makes you uncomfortable he shouldn't be doing it. I'm a "guy" guy. When I'm single I do have friends with benefits (don't judge, just being honest), but when I'm with someone I'm committed to that person. ESPECIALLY if I'm about to marry them. I have a lot of guy friends and they all feel the same way. So no, not all men do that. Good luck.

My dad is living proof of that. never had one, never will. Men like that have no principles in life. I wouldn't say worship either. Just don't sexually deprive. him. It's also a complication for you if he got his "friend" pregnant. Be careful and as his future wife, you have to set rules down. You're the woman he vows to be forever with, but talks dirty to his ex? Weird. BUT don't be too paranoid either-like even if he talks to a girl high-school classmate normally to just catch up. Give him the benefit of the doubt a few times but not too much. Balance. I'm 15 but I see how somethings turn ugly when there is a "friend" involved both for the threesome and their children. Got a sentor in the Philippines with a lot "friends" a hundred children who kill each other because of money. http://www.voxbikol.com/article/2-revilla-siblings... :)

Not all men have friends with benefits. Actually I think most probably wouldn't. It seems to me like the type of thing that doesn't happen as much as people think it does.

I don't know anyone personally who has secret friends with befits while being in a monogamous relationship but of my single friends most of us have at least one. I have 2

If he is talking normally to her like normal associates would then i suggest you don't worry about it. besides men aren't creatures that jump into a marriage without being fully committed.

No! Only the lucky men.

Only young immature ones.

No! Not all men are like this. Your fiancé is doing that behind your back?! Dump his *** please.

No, real men worship their partners and are loyal.