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Is it his drinking alone causing him to wet the bed? Or does he have a medical problem?
long story short. I've just started a new relationship. It's just starting to become clear, though, that he drinks way too much. There have been three incidents where he urinated in his sleep after a night of drinking. The first time I didnt' care - we were in a crappy, crappy dive of a hotel and it wasn't my problem, besides he was so embarrassed. The second time was in MY bed, and I was thoroughly freaked out and upset. The third time just barely happened. Once again in my bed. After I had specifically warned him that if this happens again I'm not sure if I can continue the relationship. I told him this RIGHT before he went out to the bars and he promised to keep it under control. He stays at the bars for 3 hours. He comes back, and middle of the night, this happens.
I'm ready to give him an ultimatum...alcoholics anonymous, treatment, and no more alcohol at all, or else we end the relationship.
But if this is a medical problem instead, I hate to come down so hard
11 個解答
- 1 十年前最愛解答
From experince it is not a medical problem other than the fact that alcoholism is a disease. I have done this myself uuugh not something I ever talk about. You should probably leave him. You will not be able to fix him or help him or change him. However your leaving him could be a wakeup call he desperately needs so dont feel bed about it. Your staying with him enables him to not take a look at his behavior and to think it is O.K. Help him and help yourself leave now! Tell him point blank why to. He needs to hear it.
- MarisLv 61 十年前
This is a medical problem that is caused by alcoholism. He has likely been drinking for quite a long time. My brother in law has urinated on himself in restaurants right in the chair he's sitting in while he's talking because he is so drunk.
I'd get rid of this guy, especially if this is a new relationship - it will do nothing but drain you emotionally - and probably financially - and it just isn't worth it in the long run.
Ultimatiums don't work with alcoholics - they will always pick the alcohol, which makes them the best liars in the world.
- NYGirl_2012Lv 71 十年前
It sounds like this man is deep into his alcohol if he is not able to get up and pee like a normal person. From personal experience, you have to give him an ultimatum and then set guidelines as to how far you are willing to go. If you are in the beginning of the relationship it might just be easier to let him go, especially if he isn't meeting your needs at all. Seriously think it over because men like this rarely change! Good luck!
- emtd65Lv 71 十年前
This is from the drinking. Alcohol acts as a diuretic. And do yourself a favor, besides the fact that he pees the bed, nothing good comes from being in a relationship with an alcoholic. And you cannot force rehab on someone. They have to want it or it is a waist of time.
- ?Lv 45 年前
once you're daughters over weight then do no longer basically take a seat there and ***** approximately it. Do something, regulate her foodstuff plan at abode and encourage her to get any sort of workout. and don't call her lazy, the sole clarification why she is lazy is because you taught her to be that way. in case you had taught her to be responsible then she does no longer have been like this. Bedwetting, or "nocturnal enuresis" as that's medically termed, is a actual difficulty led to by utilising distinctive aspects. those incorporate: Genetic aspects: babies with a determine who moist the mattress while they have been youthful are way plenty greater probably to moist the mattress to boot. If the two mum and dad moist the mattress as babies, the prospect that a baby will additionally be laid low with bedwetting is even bigger - as much as eighty 5%, while in comparison with a fifteen% danger confronted by utilising babies without family individuals background of bedwetting. Messenger imbalance: for the duration of sleep, we produce messengers telling the physique to slow urine production, so as that we don't would desire to upward push as much as bypass to the bathing room all nighttime. some babies do no longer deliver adequate of those messengers, so their bladders get fuller than those of youngsters who produce sufficient quantities. slow apprehensive device progression: For some babies, the aspects of the apprehensive device that understand an entire bladder and allow your baby to awaken and bypass to the bathing room without wetting the mattress may well be slow to strengthen. Small bladder: in the experience that your youngster's bladder isn't totally developed, it would desire to no longer be sufficiently vast to hold each and every of the urine produced for the duration of the nighttime, so it overfills and motives the youngster to moist the mattress. Bedwetting is often an illustration of yet another severe scientific difficulty, jointly with a urinary tract an infection, issues such as your youngster's urinary device, diabetes, sleep apnea, or constipation - yet yet another clarification why you will desire to communicate on your youngster's healthcare professional if soggy nights are a difficulty on your loved ones.
- *kwah*Lv 51 十年前
Janelle, We answered this question al ready. I feel you need to cut this guy off, before you become so emotionally involved with him you'll be diapering him yourself. Yes, he has several problems, and if you don't want to inherit them separate your self from him until he grows up. Somebody has to come down hard on him, he desperately needs it. He needs to stop drinking, because he can't handle it. Is it a medical problem?, who knows. It just needs to be taken care of with or without you. If I were him you would never see me again from the embarrassment I would feel.
- 匿名1 十年前
Get out now, girl. Not your problem. An alcoholic is the last thing you need to deal with. TRUST ME.
- 1 十年前
.Drinking and urinating are not easily solvable . it can be due to nervousness too.It can
reaccur after treatment too.
One has to consult a doctor and find out the real
problem.. it is not your business to fix his problem. just terminate the relationship and find
a man with clean habits.
savithri
- 匿名1 十年前
definet acholholic get out before it gets too deep,before you tell his pissy a** your done get a good matress out of him ,I know hes emberassed but what about what your sleeping in , it's not cute when a kid does it,I can only imagine getting intimate with the guys who urinates in my bed,how attractive(I'm lying no I can't) the hell with the febreez and sheets (He gets a pack of depends and a port-a potty)golden showers not the type of thing I'd go for , but I aint mad at ya ,do your thang girl HEYYYY!!!!!
- LillyBLv 71 十年前
Its not a medical problem he can't hold his drink and he won't stop wetting the bed if he doesn't stop drinking!