issue with gfs step father?

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so my dad moved to another state and left me in my house with the option to move out or to pay the rent (it was rented from a family friend) and my gf and her parents said I can move in with them so I did.

(i've been here 2 months i buy my own food unless her mom makes food for me before i say no i usally dont eat the food they like to eat)

in the past two weeks my gfs step dad has come into the room and yelled at me for not having a job twice. he didnt say anything about paying rent or needing to pay he just said this " you sit and do nothing all day " " you just sit on the computer". he has been drunk both times

I do have a job that I have been doing for a few months now. I make online mods and ill code things for people for payment,. i make about $250 a week. more then my last real job I had. I've told him this and thats why im online all day and he doesn't believe me.

he is a country man thats old school, I even fill the wood stove they use for heat at 4am and 6am so he can sleep and doesn't have to wake up and fill it.

im really not sure what to do. he didnt say anything about kicking me out he just wants me to get a job. getting a job would be bad for me as it would cut into my alredy low time I have to finish all my projects I am commissioned to make. i have only been making more money since ive started doing this. ive never had a drop in weekly profit.

my gf said something about moving in with her dad but i dont want to make her move just becase of me.   &#92;

匿名 · Answer

I really wish you had given your age.  It's very different if you're 18 vs 25.  If you're at the younger end of this, your dad should have given you some real world advice, because it was a big mistake to  move in with your girlfriend.  It's even worse that this includes an alcoholic stepdad.  There were probably things you could have done to stay where you were, including subleasing to 1 or 2 tenants you got to pick.

So the only thing to tell you is figure out the quickest way to get out of there.  Let your girlfriend figure out what works best for her.  That's another reason it was bad to move in with them.  You feel a responsibility towards her and she might feel the same towards you.  That just complicates things.

Pearl L · Answer

maybe you should move out, you can always rent a room from someone , thats always cheaper than having your own place

匿名 · Answer

quit fornicating and marry her !!!!!!!!

Gaia’s Garden · Answer

I would move out. Tell your girlfriend you can’t deal with alcoholics.

She (and you) might say a couple of times being drunk isn’t an alcoholic, but the current definition Includes a personality change when they drink. Since this is the only time he talks about you getting a job, it’s probably not a real issue.

alf · Answer

pay rent be alone

issue with gfs step father?

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