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He has lost all interest in sex?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Our sexual life hasn't been active for 2 years. It's getting worse. Every time it takes longer and longer to have sex and I'm scared of the consequences of this. I know he loves me and hasn't cheated on me, I have tried to ask him why he doesn't feel the desire of having sex or being playful anymore but he insists he doesn't know. He said he doesn't think about it even. That made me sad. It's not like he doesn't get horny with anyone because he watches some porn when masturbates but he can't be just masturbating and never want sex?!? I honestly don't know what the problem is. Every time I try to talk to him about it he gets mad and I said I just want to know why or if there is anything I can do to fix it. He doesn't give me answers other than he sees me cute more than sexy kinda. He plays with me touching me or spanks me a lot but not sex. We used to go crazy on that the first year. I know he has it in him that passion I just don't know how to let it out of him. Sexy lingerie don't work. Dressing sexy only I get his compliments but no sex. I don't know what to do or to try. Please help I feel if I don't do something now that we still have feelings for each other, it might be too late if I leave things like this.
Thank you for any advice!!
I'm not fat lol. I weight 118 pounds and I'm 38 years old. He is 38 as well. We are engaged that's why it frustrates me more this situation. He's not homo either, I think sometimes the routine can be your enemy. I try to do new things anyways but nothing seems to work. He's in a comfort zone in the relationship that he thinks it's not necessary because he has all already and not need to work for it. Maybe I should act not very available sexually speaking.
8 個解答
- BoxerLv 79 年前最愛解答
Time to move on......
[wonders if she realizes how many "new" friends she just made.....]
- virgodLv 79 年前
If it's not a porn addiction, then your relationship had ran its course and there is not much either one of you can do. For the future, try "traditional" way, i.e., a respectful dating, engagement and marrying a man you want to have a family and children with first, and everything else - next. Might work for you.
- ?Lv 79 年前
You're not married, find a new boyfriend.
Someone who loved you would work the problem out with you. Staying with this man is only going to eat away at your self-esteem.
- 匿名9 年前
You have two issue here; the porn and the spanking. He is likely addicted to pornography and to forms of sadomasochism. He needs some personal counselling.
- kris rLv 59 年前
He is passive aggressive, something is pissing him off and he is withholding sex to get you back (he may not even be aware of this himself).
Look it up via google (passive aggressive men... and yeah, women can be passive aggressive too but seeing your partner is a man, do the man search).
Its not a sex drive issue if he is watching porn and doing himself.
- 9 年前
Honestly, sometimes you really just have to hold them down untill you put it in a couple times and there used to it. My personal favorite, when they hit, slap or anything like that. Its weird I'm starting to notice that I must have a fetish for girls that take charge.
- 匿名9 年前
he's a homo
