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Am I being paranoiac or I'm right?
I'm engaged with my bf of 2.5 years and moved to a different city because of his job a year ago. Since he works in the liquor business they have events or parties or trips from Wk where I'm the most of the time excluded. I have noticed different attitude about him more arrogant and keeps saying he works hard and that's why he does what he does like planning a trip without me and going out without me. I don't know anybody and he knows that. I have no friends and I'm a fun gal who likes going out but I get the feeling he is up to something bc we don't have sex like we used to and he says he's tired and also tired for going out with me but not for other ppl. He just came Hm from a strip club which I told him it was ok but he said he was coming back at midnight and it's 2:40am. Of course I didn't like that and when I asked why so late he got very mad saying he was having fun and that he was an adult and that he can get Hm whenever he wants too. I feel like he is disrespecting me after all I'm being through bc of him. I left my friends and family and a life I had for following him and for what? For this? This doesn't make me happy.
Question is do u think I am being over reacting or I'm right about how I feel?
I feel he might be cheating on me but I haven't seen any proof.
3 個解答
- 9 年前最愛解答
It doesn't sound like you are having a great time at all, but rather than continuing on, I think you should be able to talk to him about it. By now, you should be able to trust each other and he should be able to listen to what you need to say. In all honesty I don't think you are overreacting about the situation because it isn't a very nice thing to be left on your own without knowing anyone after what you have done for him.
Try your best to give him a reality check. I'm sorry to say this but if he is still disrespectful, that isn't what a relationship should be... You should be together when you go out and he should be ready for commitment considering you both agreed to get engaged. Perhaps talk to a family member as well as they will know you both better than anyone on here and would be able to give you more help.
Just try not to accuse him of cheating on you, just say that you are led to feel like that though it may not be true.
Good Luck (: Just make sure you talk to him as soon as you can before you leave it too late.
- 匿名9 年前
i think you are right to be upset
it was really bad what he said about the 240 am strip club event
i would consider leaving him if were you
i don't think it will get better
since you are just living together, you are not entitled to settlement or anything
he will not change
and, if you read the posts on here ? you can be engaged for years and no marriage will take place
just walk away while you can before you have children
peace
- 9 年前
I think you should give him a little space. Go out by yourself. Go on trips by yourself. He seems to be a very private, separate person to me, so he'd probably like it if you went and enjoyed yourself. It's healthy to be able to do that, anyway. :) Good luck.
