if a guy peed on you in your bed in his sleep after a night of drinking, what would you do?

omg you poor thing, id have been pretty freaked out, the first time id let go and maybe could even see the funny side in the future but now he has done it again and didn't even bother to help you clean up his mess is so out of order and to not even be sorry is really rude, i tell him he needed to sort out his drinking coz clearly he cant cope with getting drunk x

If this happened and he wasn't even drunk then your friend might have some mental issues stemming from his childhood or he simply needs to see a doctor on why he can't control his bladder. Either way, I would encourage him to see some sort of MD in the near future. It's also disturbing that he didn't even apologize or help to clean up the mess he made, what a tool! The more I type the more I think you should just leave this guy and find one that can sleep through the night without pullups...

That's insane. Yes I would be very pissed off! Oh.. No pun intended.. Anyway how long have you been with this guy? Is this something you want to deal with forever? I mean. A grown bed wetter? And on top of that lets you clean it up and doesn't even say I'm sorry? Yeah I would confront him about it. See if you can get him some help. I've been with a few guys that we'd go get a few drink and he never wet himself. There's something more to that for sure!

After that he'd never be back in my bed that's for sure.

Get one of those rubber sheets they use for babies so the mattress doesn't get destroyed. Have him see a Dr. Maybe he has a medical problem. But he should have apologized and helped you!

Answer to additional details: Well then if it happens only when he drinks then he either stops drinking or sleeps somewhere else when he does. Or you can wake him up every hour and make him go pee. This depends on how much you love him and are willing to put up with.

Janelle, If you're as pretty as your Ava..., don't put up with it.

He obviously has a problem. I'm not a girl either but I'll tell you what, if I were, I wouldn't put up with that. I'd send him out to pasture for awhile, or at least until he got the problem taken care of. Come on.... whats next? That's baby stuff, he needs to come clean with you and tell the truth. Is he over wetting the bed? How about filling his pants or puking in his sleep. How long have you known this dude?

Howie, ...................No deal? ........................

Believe me I've been inebriated, but never to the point that I would pee the bed! Send him to the kennel until he's paper trained or in your case toilet trained. What an animal. And no help to clean it up. wtf. If that ever happened to me with my girl I would be so embarrased that she would probably never see me again, after I cleaned the mess up. Set him out the door. I know that's pretty hard, but he has no or very little class.

Try to put the shoe on a different foot. He was probably totally embarrassed and when he curled up into a ball he was fearful. He may have a physical problem. I would talk to him nicely and tell him you understand. Then suggest he see a doctor. I would ask him if he has a drinking problem too. You can buy a rubber sheet to put on your bed. I know that is weird but it will save your bed.

Oh, that is soooo rude. I understand if he can't help it, but he should be really embarassed. He should have cleaned it up. I guess buy a plastic sheet for your bed so it doesn't soak into the mattress. Yuck! He has a problem. Does he go pee right before bed? He should see a doctor.

The guy may have a bladder problem and needs medical attention. If I were in your place, I would discuss the matter with him about seeing a doctor and for him to make it a point to empty his bladder before he jumps into bed.

I'm a guy, and ... Well, I would be somewhat pissed off mainly at the fact that I'd be the one cleaning up when I didn't create the mess...

I'd have him see a doctor, whether you stay with him or not shouldn't be determined by us. :)

Dude!

First of all i feel bad for him, he obviously has a bladder problem. But the fact that he let you clean it up, eww, he's not a child.

I'd make it clear that i was unimpressed.