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how do I get my mind off this guy when I want him so badly?
long story short. New guy at work is hot. Subtle flirting. He gives me his number, but gives it to everyone else too. I call him and invite him to a party. He comes. We get drunk. We go to a club. We make out. I fall asleep at his place, we spend the night on his couch. No sex, just making out.
Next day at work I find that my crush has turned into infatuation - all he has to do is look at me and my heart rate goes up for an hour. If he talks to me, I'm in heaven all day. And, until he talks to me, I get more and more stressed and anxious.
Everything's going fine. We only just met. He probably isn't SO great, it's just that since I don't know him, he's a fantasy, and fantasies are always great.
But these things take time. But I have no patience. I want him now. I can't sleep because I keep obsessing over how much I want him.
I feel crazy. This is not the sane, normal, calm person I usually am. I like it, but I don't either. Have you felt this way?
12 個解答
- 匿名1 十年前最愛解答
SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOUR GONNA HAVE SEX THEN YOU WILL BE LOOKING FOR A NEW JOB BEFORE TOO LONG
資料來源: LOHK - *kwah*Lv 51 十年前
Janelle, It sounds like you've gone ga ga over this guy, and the only thing that's going to give you a decent nights sleep is a good roll with him. Or else you're really in love for the first time. You have all the symptoms of both maladies. Take a deep breath and follow your heart. What's meant to be will be. This could be the man you've been waiting for.
- 匿名1 十年前
Sounds like foolish infatuation to me. Very sad. This makes you sound desperate, when you usually aren't. Right? I never realized women went through this too. I've gone through this, & survived. Not to say I didn't make some "mistakes" when under this "influence". Yes, it does "sound" like a drug-effect, doesn't it. It's hormones, and you need to control them, or YOU can make a "life changing" mistake!! Think, have a quiet, long, thoughtful, conversation with that "intelligent" woman inside you. Or, not, it's your life to "make, or break".
- 1 十年前
Simple.
If you want something, take it. That's a philosophy that got many great people far in life. Even if he isn't as great as he seems now, at least you tried.
From experience, guys love it when a girl just strikes a conversation, so do so, and see what happens.
- 1 十年前
well, its really common to feel this way.. but after the makeout session things should have gotten a bit more intense... well it really depends on how u guys communicated with each other ( verbally, emotionally). but dont dump him or approach him like ur desperate. c how he approaches u and c how it goes. u can never be too confident ...good luck.
- 匿名1 十年前
well i mean you need to see this boy! you blaitantly have a strong connection with him and you should give getting to kno im better a shot. you never kno what could happen if u two date. i had the smae love story....he just doesnt kno it. go for what you want girlie. women were bred to attract.
- 1 十年前
yesh dude going through it rightt noww.....really i would stick with it could turn out to be something good if you keep at it. just keep talking to him and you'll get to see the real him whether its good or bad and it sounds wayy more like lust to me which is the stage before love and if it becomes that then who knows take a chance. its worth the risk.
- 匿名5 年前
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- 1 十年前
First of all patience is everything. second Never date someone you work with, bad idea. Don't worry the fairytail will end.
- JodiLv 51 十年前
Sounds like you are at the in-love stage. Take it slow with him. Don't rush to bed or it you will just be another girl on his list.
- 1 十年前
hahah yes i have im feeling it right now i sit next to a guy everyday in class and him and i are good friends and im waiting for him to crack the question and ask me but some times guys are just so UGH BLIND lol