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Walking away from toxic relationship. Everytime the dicision is in my hands I ge. So my anxiety and become so unhappy?

So he’s good in the sense of he’s very adventurous and is always down to try new foods new restaurants and not be home all day bored. He’s very affectionate but he’s always very aggressive . He smokes weed. And we can never go out to eat unless he smokes first.when he drinks he gets very violent with me . He hasn’t hit me but has cursed me out and thrown his jacket I my face in front of friends. He’s currently trying to get his tech certificate as Hvac and he works for HVAC . I’m graduated revelry with a bachelors in Biology. He cheated on me in the beginning, I took him back and he’s not cheating but he goes out to bars and clubs sometimes behind my back. He says I dnt give him enough space and that he need some to be with friends on weekend. Or one . However weekends are kind of the time me and him bond due to our schedule. Last night I caught him texting his ex girlfriend . I was able to get into his Instagram account and see that he had said happy Valentine’s Day. “ you forgot about me” “and then last night when I dropped him off he said at 129am “ why u always ignoring me to her on a message. I already he’s no good for me.. but everytime something like this happens I get filled with anxiety and I cry to the point of having panic attacks. I can’t imagine myself without him but then again I can’t stay suffering . Is there therapy ? Or things that have worked for people to be able to way away from toxic ppl.

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  • 匿名
    3 年前
    最愛解答

    Well....

    You have to reach that threshold.

    He does way too many disrespectful things to you.

    Text other guys. Start looking for someone else to ease the pain of leaving. You have to leave, girl. Are you going to wait until you catch him cheating again? If you do, u better leave then and with no anxiety either. You have to start valuing your self.

    Let me ask you. When you were a little girl- did you envision being with a guy like this?

    I bet you didn't.

    Slowly detach yourself. That's what I did- once I was fed up I backed away, and planned my escape.

    I promise you that it's causing more harm then good to stay. It's going to hurt you in the long run. Find a nice sweet guy. You may not want to be alone or hurt but it does go away and you make the room for the right one by leaving!! Trust me- I'm living proof :-)

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 年前

    look he is cheating on you and he never stooped, yes he is toxic and not value you the way you should be. I think you know all this already and the only problem you possible have is that you don't know how to move on. Nothing absolutely nothing is going to change and you know it, deep inside you know it but you are scared because breaking up with this guy will trigger all the anxiety in the world, but deep inside you know that's probably what you need to do. Get out of that bad relationship, its toxic and its very possible that he will find someone else and leave you at one point.

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