In a video my nose looks big and lips and my face looks distorted but in a true(non reversing) mirror I don t see non of that why is that?

SAME!!! i swear to god im the same way. i feel so ugly, and like i obsess over it. like i notice every tiny flaw. as to when i look in the mirror i love myslef. i look flawless. i guess its cause the mirror flips you around. it sucks .(

You may be way too close to the lens of the camera, and that always distorts the facial features. Try moving back a bit?

omg i thought i was the only one. people always take pictures of videos of me and I'm like "damn, do i really look like that in person?" but then i just come to the conclusion that I'm not so photogenic!