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Bullying question please answer I don't know if I can take this anymore?
So I have a group of friends , I'm a girl and 14. There's 5 of us and I don't like the other girls at my school because they go out at weekends drinking and are bitches , my friends treat me horrible,I'm always the one that walks at the back when there's no room on the path , I'm the one that gets words put in my mouth, I'm the one that gets left out , I'm the one that doesn't fit in with any of them , I want to leave the group so bad because there's a girl in it that bosses us around but nobody will stand up to her , if u do something that isn't a big deal I will be judged and questioned, like I told them I was getting a new hoodie and they we're all like you don't wear hoodies, why u getting that , and I explained I like them and I wanted a new one and they responded with " k " the most driest answer you could get , it's clear they aren't my friends because I cry myself to sleep every night , they talk to me like I'm nothing , like I'm an animal , I don't belong with them , I belong with someone else but I don't know who . I hang out with my boyfriend and his friends sometimes and the way him and his friends get on is the way I want to be , u love being with them so much more than my friends , any advice as how to get through this , I can't get new friends because my boyfriend goes to another school and I won't have anyone in school if I leave them , please help I'm so confused and now feel scuicidle because I hate my life
3 個解答
- 6 年前
Don't talk with these girls. They are just pathetic and insecure about themselves. They need a patsy. They need someone to be mean to because it increases their low self-esteem. You don't need friends like that.
Just ask your BF friends to introduce you to her sister. I'm sure one of them has a sister who could be your friend a good friend. You're a good girl and you deserve better.
Don't give up. It's all the bad and good things in our life that creates our destiny. It all happens for a reason and all the harm that happens to us will make us stronger than others.
Tell your parents how you feel and maybe there will be a change to go to new, better school. Just give it a try.
- 6 年前
Okay my girlfriend has a very similar problem.
The one difference is, she did stand up.
She has no one else in the school there for her, but she still prefers it to being trapped under the rein of bitches disguised as friends.
Honestly, it's tough and it does get tougher, but if you stay strong spirited and battle through it you will get where you want to be.
It won't be easy and it probably will get worse before it gets better, but at least you won't be feeling left out by the people who are supposed to include you the most.
Stay strong, I know you can do this - suicide would just end a life that has so much potential!
I believe in you, I'm sure your boyfriend believes in you too.
Good luck :)
- 6 年前
Don't feel bad. There are thousands of idiots out there who want to ruin your lives to make themselves feel important; don't let them get to you. Find a supportive friend and stick with them, regardless of their social status. If you want that hoodie, go get that hoodie. It's what you think that counts.
Your friends don't necessarily have to be in your school. Even if you find someone in an MMORPG game who is willing to give you emotional support, that can be a huge help. Parents and teachers can be a huge help too . .just remember that you are a beautiful person, and remember your achievements and accomplishments whenever you feel unhappy or worthless.