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Why do I feel like my heart is broken when my boyfriend isn't nice to me?
My boyfriend used to be so loving , caring and affectionate buy now , well .... He just doesn't talk , he doesn't talk to me anyway . Giving other girls shoutouts on Instagram and not me , just the little things hurt the most then they build up and when you are in bed at night they fly through your head body and mind . Why does this happen . How can one boy hurt me this much. I always thought I was an independent girl who held her head up high and didn't care. But it hurts. I have never had pain like this. I cry myself to sleep and when I ask him why he is like this he says I don't know or haha. He doesn't care . No matter what I still love him and I don't know why . I just got so attached to him , and his talk when he called me "baby girl " "Baby ". " babe ". Princess "
I thought he was amazing , one in a million guys but nope. Spare your hearts girls , that boy has called another girl what he calls you . If you don't believe me I wouldn't have belived myself when he was stealing my heart , squeezing the life out of it , standing on it , ripping it and putting it back . That's how it feels , but tell me why :(
2 個解答
- 6 年前
This kind of sounds like he had lost interest in you. You need to consider your own health and move on, he isn't worth the heartache if he doesn't even care about you. There is a guy out there that will treat you like a princess.
- TinaLv 76 年前
I think that you have forgotten that you had a life before you met your boyfriend. You will get your life back without him in it. I know you are hurting. It's hard to just switch your thoughts, and not think about him. You said that he used to be so loving, caring and affectionate. He used to make you feel like his baby girl, baby, babe, or his princess. That's all in the past now. He's no longer the same person. He has changed. And that has changed you. You are no longer the happy girl in love. Your heart is ripping apart because you can feel deep down in your heart that you are losing him.
You were not wrong when you thought that he was amazing because he was. But that is also in the past. His feelings for you have change. And now he’s hurting you. I think you really need to think about what I’m about to tell you. Your boyfriend is hurting you because you are letting him. Yes, you are letting him hurt you by staying with him. You need to break up with him. You need to let him go. I understand that this will be hard for you to let go. But you will be better off without him in your life. You need to face reality. The reality is that his feelings for you have changed. And now he’s disrespecting you by talking with girls on Instagram, and not you. You don’t need to put up with that. You don’t need to be in a relationship when you know the guy is no longer into you. You are torturing you by wanting to make this better. But it won’t get better. The only way that this can get better is if you break up with him.
So many of us have gone through the pain, and heartache that you are going through at this moment. But I promise you that once you end your relationship, you will be able to bounce back. You need to keep very busy with your family, and friends. Keep busy with the things you love to do. Get involved in volunteer work if you have to. If you keep very busy during the day then, you will be so tired when you hit the pillow at night that you won’t even be able to think about him. There is a healing process that you have to go through. Don’t be afraid to cry because crying is part of the healing process. You will go through it, and you will be able to free you from him. Try not to dwell too much of what you once had with him. There has to be lots of guys out there just dying to date you. So, start dating other guys. Dating other guys will help you to move on. Just tell the guys that you are dating that you are not rushing to be in a serious relationship. And don’t rush to get into another relationship. Take your time with that.