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Chronic masturbation syndrome ?
Hello,
I'm 26, working as a freelance tutor and I mainly homeschool children. Last week I was approached by a very nice lady, and after a short interview she offered me work tutoring her son, who has a pretty serious impediment, which is why he sisnt going to a regular school. It's something like chronic masturbation syndrome or something along those lines, and as I was told, whenever the kid gets nervous, stressed or under pressure, he starts grabbing his crotch.
I thought about it, but I do have experience working with children with special needs and the pay they offered me is really nice, so I went for a trial class. The kid was really nice, cooperating, excited, but obviously we got to some points where he started struggling and he started rubbing his genitals through jeans. I got extremely unomfortable so I told him I'd go to the bathroom and hoping he would stop, but he wouldnt stop the rest of the class.
Im not sure I can do this, I told his mom I need some more time to think about this as he really makes me uncomfortable when his syndrome kicks in. She was really sad and told me that I'm already the 4th to have a problem with it, but that she understands. Does anyone have any experience with this ? How should I approach this kid ? I really want to thelp them, they are nice people, I just feel uncomfortable with a 13 year old palying with his genitals while solving math problems.
5 個解答
- SlugLv 77 年前
I would be a little concerned that this is more behavioral than any type of syndrome as if as you say he is a "normal" kid bar this issue it doesn't seem to add up to me. Yes excessive masterbation in some individuals with learning disabilities can be apparent usually after kids hit puberty but in many cases this can be dealt with appropriately encouraging individuals to seek privacy for this.
If as you say you run a class then you have to think of the others within your class because exposing ones self or performing a sexual act in a public place is a criminal act and a safe guarding issue. Other parents are not going to want their children to be exposed to that sort of environment its likely that once other parents get wind of this then they will withdraw their child from your care.
- SebastianSLv 77 年前
Do not follow through with this job.
First of all, is Chronic Masturbation Syndrome really a condition? It sounds like one of those BS disorders -- designed to allow people to shrug off responsibility -- and I would be concerned that this kids sexual acting out is the result of some issue or event in his past. And, if the true source of the boy's problem has not been determined, he is a ticking time bomb, in that the whole thing could explode in the face of some unfortunate person with whom that kid is in contact. That unfortunate person could be you!
You do not want to be accused of sexual misconduct, and as long as this kid is touching himself in your presence, that could happen, and your whole career -- AND LIFE -- could go down the pan.
Tell the mom you are out, and that, in your humble opinion, the boy needs to see a Child Psychologist full time until this issue is resolved, because, until then, anyone with any morals, integrity and sense of professional responsibility will not go near the kid, which means all that is left is perverts.
- LaurieLv 77 年前
You should ask her for permission to consult with the psychiatrist or physician who is treating her son. You should be paid for your time during the consultation, and - of course - she should pay for the consultation appointment.
Get professional information, firsthand, so that you know whether you are equipped to deal with this boy. Then you can decide whether or not you want to continue.
What? Nobody is treating him??? In that case, RUN away from this nut job of a parent.
(On a side note, there is a character on "Sons of Anarchy" who has/had this problem; some people who were annoyed by it cut the man's fingers off!)
- ?Lv 77 年前
You could help her find a teacher who's had experience handling this type of impediment. Can you ask your colleagues?