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Help ! I have gay tendencies :(?
Hello everyone,
I'm being completely honest here and I need some honest help and guidance.
I'm a christian, go to church and I believe Jesus is our lord saviour. I'm currently 15 and in high school, got good grades and Im generally a good person. For the last 6 months however, I have been greatly attracted to some of my new female school mates. I can't help it, I think about 2 in particular day and night and it troubles me to the point of me losing sleep, because I know homosexuality is a deadly sin.
I'm trying to fight it, I pray with tears in my eyes and ask Jesus to cure me. I even ended up rubbing my private parts thinking of my friends and I just feel so dirty.
Please, has anyone been in my shoes before ? :( What do I do ? I'm too scared and embarassed to tell my parents of friends.
18 個解答
- 匿名7 年前
15 you're going through our perry and hormones most teens have these thoughts. You're not gay
- ?Lv 77 年前
"I'm a christian, go to church and I believe Jesus is our lord saviour."
You should read the Bible, it will convince you to leave Christianity.
- 匿名7 年前
Maybe tell the priest so he can give you penance to repay for this sin.
No...you have a demon oppressing you with a demon delusion!
Go to God and talk to Him about it,Christians in the light do,...then the devil and His filthy kind stop bothering them because then God gets involved!
Jesus is God,what did He tell His disciples,''with out me you can do nothing! Jesus takes care of the devil lies and oppression that he throws at Christians,that's what it means to live by faith!
- 7 年前
So you keep asking Jesus to do something and nothing is happening. What conclusions do you draw from this?
- 匿名7 年前
You are a teenager, and the true cliche is you have a lot of hormonal change, and really are discovering yourself.
You may be gay, and that's ok, you don't need to punish yourself.
The way i see it, is everybody's bi curious for a little while.
- stateofwooLv 57 年前
Romans 8:31-39
Nothing can separate us from God's love. God created you in this perfect world. spare yourself the trouble by thinking you will be judged, when all that you will ever receive is love. If you allow yourself to be who you are now, you will thank yourself down the road.
- Toke LoverLv 77 年前
Yes. Many of us have been there.
Self loathing leads to self destructive behaviour. You need to talk to professional who can help you sort this stuff out before you end up on a bad road.
- 匿名7 年前
You clearly have a real fight on your hands. There’s no easy cure. Nevertheless, anyone who desires to please God must conform to His moral standards and shun immoral behavior, even though doing so may be agonizingly difficult. Never forget that God understands the struggle you have in your heart and that he has compassion for those who serve him.* (1 John 3:19, 20) When you obey God’s commandments, you open the way for receiving his blessing. In fact, in the keeping of God’s commands, “there is a large reward.” (Psalm 19:11) Even now, you’ll enjoy the best way of life possible in this troubled world.
So rely on God, and fight against wrong desires. (Galatians 6:9) Strive to “abhor what is wicked” and “cling to what is good.” (Romans 12:9) With time and effort, you are likely to find that the wrong desires diminish. Best of all, by avoiding homosexual practices, you’ll have the prospect of living forever in God’s righteous new world.
- ?Lv 47 年前
It takes a lot of courage to tell anyone, but tell someone you trust that won't tell anyone else if you don't want them to, and will pray with you and help you out with whatever you need.