An engaged couple: man is 44, woman is 25, thoughts?

So what? My husband is 30 yrs older than me, and we are still very much in love and very happily married.

Older man is more mature, emotionally more stable, more established in his career and finances, takes better care of his lady. So why not?

The criterion is not the age, but the soul-mate factor which is so absent in, let's say him 25 her 25, or him 44 and her 44 relationships.

The man loves her more? Care for her? More secure? I would say this type of woman is looking for a daddy.

A daddy that described to be perfect to her is just a fake one. An absolute expert player he is. Fake infront of her but behind her, his real evil came out. That was how I knew this guy friend. He frequently tells me how naive she is and still naive until today.

Any woman that tells you its perfect and the happiest and always tell everyone about how happy her marriage is with this gap of age from the top until bottom no problem with her marriage WITHOUT anyone asking about her marriage, she infact is extremely lack of self esteem.

That's an arousing thought.

"interesting" hardly covers what inevitably, will be...

When she is 35? Smarter? Wiser? He will be 54...starting to wane (most assuredly, his sex drive IF NOT, other physicalities) Will she be happy? I so doubt it. Will she be restless? I so guarantee it. I've seen this scenario sooooooooo many times now, among even friends...Have yet to be wrong.

She will probably regret this decision...But apparently? It is, on her life path to do...

So be it.

Grace

My first thought....mid life crisis meets girl looking for daddy figure or gold digger

Pin a medal on that man.

hahaha

I don't care, but I doubt it will last. (Statistically it won't)