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Bringing it to the next level with my boyfriend ? ?
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year and we both have a lot of respect for one another and I'd be happy to have sex with him but we are only 15 and I don't want to do it at this age and he knows and respects that but we hook up a lot but want something different just to change things up a bit going to a different level any advice ideas? X
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- 匿名9 年前最愛解答
This is a tricky question. If I tell you to wait, you'll think I'm an old fogey, or being morally judgemental. But my real concern is about your future. First, the chances of you staying with the boyfriend you have at 15 are very, very small. Everyone thinks they'll be in love forever at that age, but almost no one really is. You're in the process of growing and changing, and so is he. So you have to think about what will happen if the two of you break up. Do you date someone else and have sex with him? With how many? And it's still true, fair or not, that people are very judgmental of girls who have sex with multiple partners.
The other issue, of course, is that if you get pregnant, what happens to your life? If you do decide to have sex, please find a way to get on birth control pills. They are the only reasonably sure way of birth control- and even they aren't 100 percent. I know a lovely child who was conceived while his mother was on the pill. Condoms are only partly effective. If you get pregnant, you have difficult decisions to make. Chances are good your boyfriend won't be mature enough to stick with you and the baby. You'll be 16, with a baby to take care of, no social life, and limited educational opportunities.
So please be careful.
- 9 年前
You need to think about the future. What if you got pregnant? What if you broke up an your boyfriend told everyone you had sex? I know someone who got pregnant at 16. She aborted the baby and she regrets it so much. But then it wouldn't have been any easier with a baby. And I don't know about your school, but in mine, rumours spread like wildfire. When someone finds out about someone having sex, they are verbally abused and everyone turns on them.
But it's up to you. If you are careful & think you can 100% trust this boy then do it. However I wouldn't recommend it. Anything can happen and chances are you won't last. It's the harsh truth but it's very unlikely that you will stay together.
Just think about it and please be careful.
