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am i asking to much from my boyf? why is he beeing like this?
So i have been with my boyfriend for just over 10 months now and he's always been my best friend and supported me with everything. but lately its felt like im the one that has to make the effort with everything like we go to the same school but we live in different towns like half an hour away from each other and im always the one who has to drive over to see him and spend time with his family and he hardly ever makes the effort to drive over here and see me and my family. and im always the one to call him and most of the time im also the one who has to text him first. also hes from a complacated family and alot of the time that upsets him but he will never explane why hes so upset to me when i just really wish he would be comfortable enough to tell me things like that. because he always tells me its fine babe you know you can talk to me aboout anything and i always tell him about myt stuff but it feels like he doesnt trust me. and another thing at school hes always tells me i can go hang out with him and his friends especially when my friends are fighting but when i do go and see him its like he doesnt want me there and hes all weird about it but thats only sometimes because alot of the time his and my friends are all together. so yeah im just really confused about if im wanting to much from him (him making the effort) and why he seems like he doesnt trust me and is weird around his friends when im there? and of course what i should do to fix it or what im doing wrong?
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- kris rLv 59 年前最愛解答
just cut back on your efforts a little and let him know you would appreciate it if he initiates contact sometimes.
You are doing all the reaching out and sharing of your stuff and he is not doing the same, so it is a little bit of an unequal relationship, if you text him every day, let is skip for a day or two and see what happens. Don't do it out of spite or frustration, if he txts or calls have a ready answer like 'its so nice to hear from you' as he may be wary of making the first moves due to fears of rejection.
Ask him to your place occassionally, and if he can't make it, then don't rush to his place, simply do homework etc for one evening and come to his place the next day if thats what you usually do.
- 9 年前
Honey, this is not going to be the advice you want to hear, but he's not going to change.
There is not point pouring more effort into a relationship than your partner. It has to be equal comprimise.
I was in a very similar relationship before I met my fiance, and I'm telling you - this is not healthy, and it will not make you happy!
資料來源： Personal Experience - 9 年前
At times we fight too hard such that when we get the prize, we are too exhausted jus coz the fight drained our energy.
If you feel your energy's being drained to the extent you can't fight no more, by all means, feel free to start another spark elsewhere.
After all, it's like you are the only one who wants the relationship to work....
Wish you all the best
