revisit on an older question with new details?

okay, so this is the original quesiton: http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ag...

yes i know its on my profile but whatever, seriously. its not my point.

my point is, after that question, i found out that he did actually have a girlfriend, and i decided that it was just better all around if i just forgot about it. now, last night the school that he works at put on a play. i went because my moms best friends daughter was in it, so i went to see her. we bumped into each other. wow is all i can say. now, before you say well of course he was there, dummy, he works there, let me tell you this: first of all, they put on the the play three to four times. why were we there on the same night?? secondly, not all the teachers go, why did we both have to go, when i actually almost didnt??

okay, maybe it is a coincidence, but i just feel like i was meant to see him.

he was with his gf, the same one from two years ago. we caught each others eye a few times but only once did he actually speak to me. i made it a point to not talk to him to see if he would say anything, and he did. now in the first question, i had mentioned that when i first saw her she death glared at me when he told her something about me. well, she did it again :P when he came to talk to me she just grabbed his arm possessively, and i laughed internally. she kept giving me ugly looks, and once in a while i caught him looking at me.

idk what the hell to do. i am actually almost 19 now, so im not worried about the same things i was worried about then.. but i just don't know. im an emotional wreck. it turned me totally upside down to see him again after like a year... i just don't know what to do. i have no excuse to go see him this year, but next year my brother will be in the same school he works in. should i go and start chatting him up again and see what happens?

- and pleasseeee no answers about how im a monster because he has a girlfriend, i really don't care. all is fair in love and war, and i must have had one hell of an effect on him to deserve all those dirty looks. besides i really couldn't care less about her. im sorry if it makes me seem like a seflish b*tch, but wtv. :)

i just need some good advice. don't waste both our lives insulting me, if i dont care that he has a gf, do you think you'll affect me with an insult? :)

thankss in advance.