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Why does this bother me so much?

My fiance has a woman friend who he has had forever. He talks about her alot, puts comments on her myspace quite a bit, calls her sweety when he talks to her. He assures me that they are just friends, and I believe that, but why am I still jealous of her - he really doesn't even ever see her. I think part of the problem is that I haven't met her yet, I am hoping that once I meet her, things will be different...

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I agree that I think that it stems from the fact that I haven't met her yet, and I haven't met her yet because we are always together and she lives in another town, and we don't ever go out down there. He knows I want to meet her and that I feel weird about it - we have talked about it, and he really wants me to meet her. - My other thought was that I should ask to be her friend on myspace and talk to her a little there to try to get to know her - or would that be psycho?? I do believe that they are just friends (and no he is not boning her) and in that case would like to get to know her...

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  • 匿名
    1 十年前
    最愛解答

    Your jealous cuz you want him all to your self. It's natural, just keep it in check. When you start freaking out about it just take a breath and remind yourself that he is your fiance not hers.

  • 1 十年前

    You are jealous because your fiance' is not treating you with respect and dignity. Your emotions are correct. Know that what he is doing is putting someone (ANYONE) before you and you're not even married yet.

    He is telling you the content of his character and you're not listening.

    Remember this conversation in 5 years.

  • Fun1
    Lv 4
    1 十年前

    This is tricky, cause in my opinion you have every right to be upset over this, yet, if you say something, he may find it restricting to him as an individual.

    I would air it out. Let him know how you feel cause if you're going to spend the rest of your life with this guy, you need to be able to confide in him about anything and everything.

  • Hey, i wouldn't worry about that. Most guys that are getting married tend to have a female friend to talk to that way if they ever get worried about marriage or just need good advice on something involving yalls relationship they can ask her.

  • firt all he shouldnt be talking to a female if you dont approve of this. So ask him how would he like that if you did the same thing and it seems to me like he likes her and i am going through the same thing. Guys kill me they want to do what ever they want but they really couldnt handle it if we did the same thing so my advice to you is to tell him how you feel and he cant respect that i say leave him alone if he cant stop point blank

  • 1 十年前

    What do you want from him??Is she going to be part of your life after marrage? Best put a hold on forever till you work this out>

  • 1 十年前

    If he is so close to her why haven't you met her yet? He's your fiance and hasn't introduced her yet?? I would have a problem with that.

  • 1 十年前

    Maybe because you want him all to yourself, i know how you feel im the same way. its normal, i think

  • 1 十年前

    its very normal.

    and good luckk(:

  • 匿名
    1 十年前

    he's so banging her

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