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Our kids must help dad move?
I don't know if I'm biased or not, what do you think?
My ex is moving. He doesn't have any friends (basically for the same reasons we divorced), and he won't hire help.
Since he doesn't have a job (another reason we're divorced), our daughters (11 and 14) go to his place after school. He has been putting them to work - packing his stuff and cleaning the house (they don't have much at his house besides a bunk bed and one dresser).
Both of them must help load and unload the truck, and the 14 year old must help carry the furniture. When I pick them up after I get off work, they are tired, hungry and have all their homework to do.
To be fair: When I moved last, they had to help pack their stuff and some of the house stuff, but I also had a lot of adult help help. They didn't have to move furniture. It was also during the summer.
What really bothers me is (1) the 14 year old carrying sometimes heavy furniture, (2) He won't let them do homework, just pack and clean.
Why I can't go help - I work full time plus a long commute, trying to make ends meet. I leave the house at 6 am, get home between 5:30-7:00 pm.
The court agreement was that he gets them after school, but this is a new twist he's added
6 個解答
- 1 十年前最愛解答
I was raised on a farm and the chores and field work came first after school, followed by supper and then homework.
A little hard work doesn't hurt kids, heavy work does and they shouldn't be doing it.
- moonchildLv 41 十年前
Homework comes first. Tell him to stop enslaving your kids. For the kids to help out is fine but not when they have homework to do or school the next day. My daughter (then 14) helped my ex's girlfriend move and she was so tired the next day she asked me could she stay home from school because her back was hurting, I said never again. I told my ex not to let it happen again.
- ?Lv 71 十年前
Your ex husband is a piece of work, isn't he?
I'd confront him about it. You're the mother. You have every right in the world to speak up for your children.
- allrightythenLv 71 十年前
Oh so what - a little manual labor isn't going to kill a kid, and it is only for his move, so it is temporary. You are making more out of it than needs to be.
- xyzLv 41 十年前
Go over and help him get it done, also why are you kids going there still if you feel it is not right.
- 匿名1 十年前
let them help.... the sooner he moves, the sooner he'll be out of ur lives.... give the friendless guy a break
