Should I go or not?

Question

I met a guy online a couple of months ago - we met in person a week ago and he called me every night afterwards and we talked for 1-3 hours each nite. We had a second and third date this past weekend, and we were supposed to go out on Sunday night again, but I think that he got tired of me (we pretty much spent the weekend together) and so he cancelled Sunday night. He sent me off with a hug and no kiss (but I was a little sniffly at the time, and he might have been worried I was catching a cold, which I did). Ok so long story short, I had kinda invited myself to his house to hang out tonight, and he is acting weird - not sure if he wants me to come over or not. Should I come up with an excuse not to go or should I go and see if I can figure out if something is wrong?? Right now I feel like he was playing me to get what he wanted and am a little PO'd about that.

匿名 · Accepted Answer

If he is acting that way, then something is going on. Alot of guys have trouble telling a girl that they are not interested. Or he may have used you to get what he wanted.

I would say don't go. If he is acting wierd then he doesn't want you there. Personally, i would not feel you have to tell him that you are not going. Going there to see what is wrong with not help things.

Marisa D · Answer

do not go.  trust your gut instincts and move on.  if the guy really liked you, he would have asked if you were still going to join him this evening.  if you are too available for him it will only backfire.  trust me, move on!

Should I go or not?

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