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My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We have a 2 year old and a 10month old. My period is 4 days late. I may be pregnant. I have a great job (i have great benefits and make enough$, that I take care of me and the kids) My husband said that if I am pregnant, he wants me to have an abortion. I am completely against abortion. He then said, its either our marriage or the baby.(I think he's shocked, mind you we aren't even sure if I am yet) Now we've had our share of martial issues but are in a much better place now. Ive told him that I wanted another child. Maybe not right now.

I found out two months ago that my husband of 3 years cheated on me. He told me himself in front of his mother that he cheated. I am devastated. I have a good job, a good wife and mother and we have 2 beautiful little girls. All I ever ask of him is to spend time with me and his children. Last week the chic he slept with said that she is pregnant. She is supposed to be going to the doctor today. She told him that if she is pregnant that she wants to have an abortion. He doesn't want her to have one. he apologized to me for the hell he has put me through. And he asked me if she keeps the child, if I would be okay with that. I told him no. I can not deal with having a constant living reminder of his lack of respect for our marriage. I told him if she is pregnant and keeps the child its over.

I have been married for a little over 2 years now. My husband and I rarely have sex. I wear sexy things and initiate often. However, every time I initiate, he rejects me. Thus, I feel sad so, I stop asking from fear of rejection. We have 2 beautiful girls, I am the primary care giver. He goes out on weekends, often times without me. He doesnt tell me who he is with or where he is going. He always says "my friends" and its none of my business. Last time I checked, a husband is a wife's business. Im at home with the kids. What to do?

Here's the situation. . I am a vibrant and attractive (model and pageant queen) 26 year old woman. My husband and I just had our 2nd child Oct. 18,2010. I only gained 3lbs during pregnancy and I've lost 32lbs since giving birth. I dont feel attractive to my husband anymore. I've tried wearing sexy lingurie, he doesn't like lingurie. At one point my hair was short, he wanted me to grow it out, so I am. He doesn't like weave, so , I dont wear it anymore.He can see pics of his ex's and get all excited about them and how they look, but not me.

I am a makeup artist so yes, I do wear makeup.

I just cant understand why he can give a compliment to another woman with or without weave but say nothing to me. I dont know what to do. Help?

This morning I found something very disturbing. Today I looked in the glove compartment of my husband and I car. I was looking for an advertisement for our church's upcoming conference to give to my hairstylist. I saw some pictures of another woman in lingerie and a compromising position. I am upset almost to the point of tears. I dont know what to do.

I just had a baby 4 months ago and I've lost all of my baby weight and some. (I'm smaller now than what I was when I got married 14months ago). I've been off of work since I was 38weeks pregnant. My husband has since complained about me being off of work, at home all day with our daughter. I am returning to work on Oct. 19th. I understand that it seems like alot by him being the only one working right now, however I do get a weekly check. He says some mean things to me.( i.e. calls me fat, says that I'm lazy, he wants to leave me and I don't do my wifely duties.) Not only that doesn't care for my family and acts like he doesn't want our daughter to even know them. I have asked him what I can do to improve as a wife. He said he doesn't know. He complains about everything ( my cooking,cleaning (or lack thereof),my short haircut,etc.)I don't feel appreciated.We have sex only when he wants to.I don't even ask him anymore because he always says no. he doesn't like lingerie. He has told me that he is bitter and not sexually attracted to me, but yet still loves me.I know that I'm a good person and a great mother. What should I do?

My periods are very regular(they come like clockwork). I normally have bad cramps right before and the first couple of days of the cycle. My last period was 7/31/08(that's when it started). My husband and I just got married August 16. (right around the time I would be ovulating).I am a 5 days late for my period.(as of 9/4/08). I have had none of my regular symptoms. I think that I may be pregnant. The symptoms that I do have are different than what I'm used too. I'm not stressed out over anything.I take relaxing baths,spend time with family and our dog. the last time my cycle changed it was only by 2 days late. My husband also thinks that we may be with child. When should I take a test?

My periods are very regular(they come like clockwork). I normally have bad cramps right before and the first couple of days of the cycle. My last period was 7/31/08(that's when it started). My husband and I just got married August 16. (right around the time I would be ovulating).I am a few days late for my period. I have had none of my regular symptoms. I think that I may be pregnant. The symptoms that I do have are different than what I'm used too. My husband also thinks that we may be with shild. When should I take a test?

My bridal shower is THIS saturday. I have given my mom a list of ladies that I'm close to (some family included). However, I was made aware that she has invited people to the shower that I did not invite. I understand that she is giving the shower, however, it is still in honor of the bride. Not everybody that she has invited without my knowledege is invited to the wedding. Not everybody that she has invited do I communicate with or see. I feel like just because someone may know me, doesn't mean that they should be invited to the shower or ceremony. I'm not into inviting a bunch of people for gifts. I just want to be surrounded by the people I know who genuinely care for me. What should I do? I've already told her that everybody she's invited may or may not have been invited to the ceremony. I don't feel like I should have to invite them to the wedding, just because my mom invited them to the shower. I hope that those people don't show up univited to the wedding. That would be rude.

My fiancee has a female friend ( she's married and has kids), that I'm uncomfortable with. Their b-day's are a week apart. They call each other twins/sis & bro. They say they are just alike. I'm uncomfotable with the fact that they talk to each other on a frequent basis, he visits their house @ least once a week (sometimes I go along).

Here's the thing, I asked them both if something was going on, they said no. However, its like because they don't have a issue with how things appear between the two of them, nobody else should have a issue with it either. Although they say they could never be with each other, their friendship is a little to close for my comfort. What is a woman to do?

I am considering not participating in the Miss Plus America Pageant 2008. I competed this year. I am Miss Indiana Plus America and former Miss Ohio Plus America 2007. After thoughtful consideration and prayer, I may not participate. When I went to Dallas this past July, I spent almost $3,000.00. I dont want to put a big dent in the budget for the wedding. Because I refuse to go into debt. My fiance would prefer me not to go, however its up to me. Out of being respectful to the Man of God, I may not go. What do you think? FYI I have yet to give my final desicion to the director of the pageant. Not to say that its not possible to do both, my budget would be very tight .

We are going to have a beautiful elegant ceremony.

. I am considering not participating in the Miss Plus America Pageant 2008. I competed this year. I am Miss Indiana Plus America and former Miss Ohio Plus America 2007. After thoughtful consideration and prayer, I may not participate. When I went to Dallas this past July, I spent almost $3,000.00. I dont want to put a big dent in the budget for the wedding. Because I refuse to go into debt. My fiance would prefer me not to go, however its up to me. Out of obedience to God and being respectful to the Man of God, I may not go. What do you think? FYI I have yet to give my final desicion to the director of the pageant. Not to say that its not possible to do both, my budget would be very tight .

We are going to have a beautiful elegant ceremony.

. I am considering not participating in the Miss Plus America Pageant 2008. I competed this year. I am Miss Indiana Plus America and former Miss Ohio Plus America 2007. After thoughtful consideration and prayer, I may not participate. When I went to Dallas this past July, I spent almost $3,000.00. I dont want to put a big dent in the budget for the wedding. Because I refuse to go into debt. My fiance would prefer me not to go, however its up to me. Out of obedience to God and being respectful to the Man of God, I may not go. What do you think? FYI I have yet to give my final desicion to the director of the pageant. Not to say that its not possible to do both, my budget would be very tight .

We are going to have a beautiful elegant ceremony.

My paternal grandmother and my mom don't get along. Nana told me that in order to my gift, I have to give her a picture and or a copy of the video. I am upset that she's not coming. The wedding isn't until Oct 08 or March 09. Invitations are expensive, should I send one anyway?