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so, we have a rolled up awning in front of a window, right next to the front door. it's been rolled up ever since we moved into the house. last summer wasps have nested inside of the awning. now me and my family have to quickly leave &enter the house so we don't get stung. should we unroll the awning at night time so they'll leave?

so, we have a rolled up awning in front of a window, right next to the front door. it's been rolled up ever since we moved into the house. last summer yellow jackets (i think they are anyway, they're black with thin yellow stripes and slightly thick bodies) have nested inside of the awning. now me and my family have to quickly leave &enter the house so we don't get stung. should we unroll the awning at night time?

(i'm 15 by the way) so today, my mother came home yelling and screaming and cussing at me for not doing something she asked me to do. i quickly apologized, because i forgot. she continuously begins to yell and curse at me, slamming doors and stomping and throwing things. She yelled at me and i said "I'm not going to speak to you when you're yelling at me." and proceeded to do what she told me to do. i walked away soon after and went to my room and shut the door and left her alone.

I think i handled it correctly, but my sister tells me i was disrespectful ? i said it in a calm tone.

i don't understand how people can throw the words "go kill yourself" around lightly. or how people joke about cutting. i experienced very crippling depression from a young age, so hearing anybody JOKE about something so serious upsets me deeply. i understand "it's the internet" and trolls want to get a reaction from others, but to treat something as debilitating and serious as depression as a joke baffles me.

my mom is a very natural person, and i have HORRIBLE periods. they make me miss out on school and i even missed a day of work because of it! so i asked to get on birth control so i wouldn't have them (or at least have lighter ones that don't last long) and she always says "doctors will tell you anything to sell something to you! it's an industry! blah blah blah and birth control is bad for you and will make you infertile!"

she also thinks this because after one of my older sisters got off birth control, she had a little trouble conceiving. (but eventually got pregnant)

how do i convince her to let me take it? (I'm 15 so i can't necessarily drive myself to the doctor.)

could it possibly stunt or be harmful to my health because i'm young? i turned 15 this month so i know my body is still changing. but i have small hips and my body looks kind of straight. there's a little curve to me but not enough/to my liking. summer is also coming up so i want to feel comfortable in my bikini.