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If no one just comes out and says or asks it. When do you know? How do you know?

When i was about 11, I mentioned it would be embarrassing to get your period while swimming to an older friend. She said that's impossible because your period stops when you're in the water. I always wore tampons in the water, so I never knew, but it seems like it might be true, when I'd take out the waterlogged tampon it seemed to take longer for my flow to be heavy again, and if I swam a lot my period seemed to last longer. I never tried it with a full on period and never wanted to. Is it true that you won't bleed in the water?

I had my most intensely pleasurable sexual experience (not intercourse) when I was 18. It was crazy. The guy touched me, mostly clothed (my shirt never went further than just below my breasts in the front and off when he massaged my back), he caressed me and we kissed (French) and I rubbed against his thigh when it'd get too intense. I've never felt so intense in my life. I didn't "orgasm" but I felt like I was riding on waves of pleasure that were more intense and longer lasting than any orgasm I've ever had. I was literally gasping and moaning and thrashing my head back & forth as I lay on the bed. There was talk of love. It went on for about 5 hours. It felt like every touch, every word was perfect, exactly what I needed and wanted, but I never had to ask for it, it was like he was reading my mind and knew exactly where and how to touch me and what to say. It was the first time we were ever together. I though we had this incredible connection and it was nice most ofthe times I was with him after than, not as intense. Then we actually got together later but that connection didn't seem to be there. He didn't seem to know without me telling him anymore. I later found out he was probably on ecstacy at the time of the first and probably next few times we were together. My husband said that's probably why it was so great. Was he in tune to me because of the drug, or was I being affected by the drug he was on? I've noticed I get horny around guys who've smoked MJ, does X do that?