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Somethings wrong with my cat?? She was calm, laying down while I was brushing her and she left and I let her and then all of a sudden, she comes running back in growling and like furiously grooming herself, she won t let me or the other cat near her and she s acting like super paranoid and growing and hissing at everything!!! :( :( she is acting as though she is running away from something and anytime I come near she hisses and growls and Idk whats wrong : ( she was so peaceful and affectionate like 2 minutes ago. Update: she is hiding under the bed which she like never does and I m afraid to even try and get her out :/ I just want my baby girl back :(

I was an honour student in high school, had many ambitions. I get to university and I fail. I go to college and I fail. OSAP has cut funding to me for a year so now I can't even afford it until then but if I fail again than that's pretty much it. So I need to find the right path for me but I have no clue how to discover it?! Like how do I know which career I may like or be good at? I have no clue where to start!

So I don't know exactly how to explain this... pretty much ever since I was 4 (when I entered foster care) I've had these "daydreams" as I refer to them, which revolve around the lives of (for the most part) 5 people. I am still having these daydreams and I am 19 now. When I have these daydreams, I zone out and my body goes into autopilot and it's like I am there in 3rd person, its very vivid and I can only see the dream and not what I am doing in real life but I can still walk and preform tasks (like i said, its like autopilot). The only thing from reality that I can hear while I am like this is music, everything else is blocked out (idk why). I cannot control what the characters say or do like it just pops into my head.

The 5 are:

Max, 28 year old male

Connie, 18 year old female

Meghan, female

Jake, male

Ryan, male

** Jake and Ryan are around 18 but Idk their exact age for certain **

They are all straight except for Max who is asexual. Max and Connie are siblings, Ryan is Connie's boyfriend and Meghan and Jake are friends of the other characters and best friends to each other. When the daydreams first started I was 4 and Connie was 3 and Max was 13. Meghan was also around and another girl Brittney who just kind of vanished. Ryan and Jake didn't really appear until the beginning of high school. Max like protects the others and keeps everyone in check, he's really helpful and very kind.

I don't know it's just weird that it hasn't stopped by now, thoughts?

Okay so first off my cat is about 8 months and a spayed female. She is NOT at all overweight. She has always been very lean. She was spayed at 9 weeks and I know cats stomaches can become all droopy after being spayed like pouches but it seems weird to show up now. I didn't notice this before... When I grasp the area it's like fatty balls the size of my fist. She doesn't appear in pain at all or anything else, is this just her normal okay stomach or is it vet worthy?

Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I really need some advice for this.

I have absolutely no sexual desire, I don't get "turned on" and I never have. I started noticing around 14 when all my friends were being h0rny b@stards and I was totally out of the loop. They just blamed me being more "innocent" than them but I knew that wasn't it (I was probably way more experimental and curious than they were).

I got my first boyfriend at 16 because I had no interest in boys and still didn't but I decided to try anyways. I was the one who asked for sex because this issue had been bothering me and I wanted to see if actually doing something would help. Nope. And then of course I felt as though I had to continue but slowly I started saying "no I can't if I don't feel anything" I tried doing it for him but without the sexual desire I'm stuck.

We broke up for a bit and I dated someone else and had a fling with a few people and still nothing. We had gotten back together, we have been with each other for almost 3 years but we aren't having sex for months at a time and it's going to ruin our relationship. I'm thinking I may not be able to stay with him. I can't give him anything and he won't go forever without...