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A Dominican male friend of mine has introduced me to his cousin who wants a girlfriend.

They were both born and raised in the DR and are here in the US on working Visas the male friend is in the process of getting permanent residency here.

The cousin is working on the same thing.

I've already made it clear to him that I'm not some chick that he can use to get married in order to get permanent residency.

He explained that he's already working on that by working hard and saving up...etc.

So what advice can you guys give me regarding dating a Domincan man?

I've been fooling around with this guy for nearly half a year now. Recently he's become a lot more affectionate and has stated that he likes me more than just a "f**k buddy* I feel like he's saying all of that to keep me around though.

Our hook ups have become a lot more frequent though in which we meet up once a week instead of once a month or so.

He came inside of me one night and I was furious.

I took a plan B but I don't know if that helped because well...(sorry if its tmi) I've been pooping A lot more frequently now. Its not like a diarrhea type thing. Its very solid and large amounts. I do this on a near daily basis.

Could I he pregnant. I've also had slight head aches as well.

He told me that he likes me as more than just a friends with benefits.

Yup... He's about to be shipped back due to not having all of his papers.

He asked me if I wanted to marry him once. I was like NO! 😂😂😂

However if it'll keep him here in the US and he's not BSing I was considering. Both his parents are here too so. He really wants to stay.

He's a hard worker. So if anything seeing how hard he's trying I'd hate to see his efforts be in vain.

So I've been considering solely for the fact to help him stay. However I don't want to get involved if it'll come back to bite me in the a@#.

He stated that he likes me as more than just a friend with benefits and that he wants to take me out on a date.

I'm not sure how I feel. Honestly I've been through a lot with men and have grown numb to the idea of romance. If that makes any sense. I don't hate him or anything. I respect him as a person I just feel like its just all talk.

I don't want to get my hopes up that something long lasting will come out of this.

I have a new guy friend of whom I've grown really close to. We uh... We've had sex a couple of times and have cuddled in bed together on many occasions. We've agreed to take things slow though and just be friends for now...and not sleep together any more.

We hang out every weekend despite that though. I'm going to be looking for an apartment soon. He suggested that since his lease will be up soon that we should go apartment hunting together and be neighbors.

Would you say we're really close friends? I feel like its a very...unique friendship that we have. A woman that likes him asked about me whether we were dating and he admitted that he was never clear to the other woman whether we were working on a relationship or not.

So me and a guy friend have had sex a couple of times. We spend a lot of time together too. However we sort of started right off the bat having a physical sexual relationship.

I stated though that we should start off as just friends in the beginning because we're still getting to know each other.

So last week he stated that we should be just friends for now since that was my original request and since he never respected that he wanted to honor my wishes.

The thing is we still sleep in the same bed. But I don't cuddle with him because well... There is eexual attraction there.

The thing is we still hang out and he teaches and shows me things. He even invited me out to hang out with him and thus VERY attracted woman that is clearly attracted to him. He told me that he wouldn't ditch me to hang out with her because he was "cool" with me first.

We then later had a discussion about her and what my impression of her was.

He then later told me that he was glad I came with him to hang out with him and her.

I'm not sure how I should feel.

First off let me be clear, I have NEVER come on to this man. I feel as if its more beneficial long term wise to keep him as my trainer. I dont want to lose a great trainer over just a momentary instance of sexual satisfaction.

He's told me many times before that some of the women he's trained have come on to him in the past.

Here are some things he's done that makes me wonder if he's attracted and wants to sleep with me.

He's invited me out to hang out at his pool at his apartment complex.

Just last night he invited me to sleep over at his apartment if I felt "too tired" to go home. My training sessions are at night around 10 don't finish up until 12.

He's also touched my sports bra... Which I feel is a VERY intimate thing to do.

What do you think?

Are these signs or am I looking too into things?

We've barely known each other a month. Within this time frame he's made me aware that he thinks I'm pessimistic, insecure, over bearing....with an obnoxious laugh.

This is within the course of 3 weeks of us becoming friends.

I've only once misjudged his character and ever since then I haven't made an assumption since. I realize its better to focus on the good aspect of a person rather than the negatives.

However he keeps pummeling with all of these negative findings about myself.

I'm actively working on ALL of these things. In a small way I feel as if he thinks he's all of these things because he's very bossy and tries to take over in everything.

I feel as if he's projecting all of his insecurities into me.

Yeah he keeps pointing out my flaws. That I'm insecure, and over bearing. When to be honest I kind of feel like he's all of those things. I've only known him a month and well... He's kind of bossy he acts like a know it all and you can't educate him on anything because he SWEARS he already knows it.

He has a lot of attention from women and I feel he's a very self conscious person.

He stays in his phone messaging other women on Facebook.

He's an artist so I can understand him being active on his Facebook page. However he's ALWAYS on there.

I'm super confused by this. Best answer gets 10 points.

Okay so we've slept together before. He stated he's not comfortable with kissing me yet. However he gives me these lingering firm hugs.

Why?

How can you like to give hugs yet not kiss?

He also helps me and genuinely wants to see me succeed.

I went over to hang out at my friend's late last night. However I only hung out for a short while because he was really tired. I couldn't stay over because he was at his sisters and she didn't know I was there.

So I wound up leaving. Before I left though he gave me a firm hug and wouldn't let me go. He said "we should have did this earlier I'd have stayed up".

Why did he do that?? It was really sweet and kind of romantic in away. I've never had a guy hug me like that before.

He's forgotten his headphones twice and he's forgotten a few of his prints (he's an artist) he's also forgotten his paint brushes in my car.

Of which these things I still have.

Could this be intentional or could he just be genuinely forgetful?

I have a male friend that I sleep with. We hang out and do things together. He's actually helpinge with establishing my own business. However we're just friends at the end of the day.

Does anyone else have a relationship like this male or female?

Do you think a relationship like this is weird or slightly out of the ordinary.

I see one on a regular basis. We're pretty close in a sense that we spend time together and do things together like art. Its our passion.

One out of the other two I fool around with once a month its interesting because he's from another country and is so affectionate and what not .

He kisses me goodbye every time we part.

The third one I fool around with maybe once a week or every two weeks. He just likes to get straight to sex.

Being sexually involved with these men has kind of opened my eyes to how differently each man expressed their sexual attraction.

I'm starting to wonder though if I should stop this. I had a dream that has made me realize that me being involved with these men is affecting me negatively. What do you think?

I met this awesome guy online through an art page on Facebook. We really hit it off and it feels like I've known him for a life time.

He's a very talented artist and has a big following on Facebook.

To make a long story short we were talking about him becoming famous. I said "don't forget about me while you're at the top". He "replied you coming along with me, you're going to be right there too."

I was so surprised by what he said I didn't know what to say it was so sweet. Lol

Then the other day he told me "when he thinks of art he thinks of me."

Another super sweet statement. Art is LIFE for both of us!

Is he trying to tell me that he like me?? Lol

We met and hung out for the first time a few days ago. Before departing for the day he hugged me and rubbed my back.

He requested a hug before he left. Sooo is this a good sign or am I reading too much into it? Lol

I'm 28 and look extremely young for my age. I'm told every single time I tell people how old I am that I look a lot younger than my age. I'm never approached by men... mature men that around my age any way.

I do dress mature though and even then I still look like a young teen.

I feel like maybe I'm ugly or that men don't approach me because I look young and immature.

Here's a pic of me: http://tinypic.com/m/jjtj5t/4

Its been over two months and I have only went on two dates with this man. I did sleep with him on the second date. However he did advise to me after the second date that he'd be getting really busy since he works at the airport working double shifts.

I was okay with that. However he randomly text me saying he misses me.

One day on Facebook I am suggested to add him as a friend. The thing is... It was to add a totally DIFDERENT Facebook of him, with a totally different name. In thus profile is says he's MARRIED. I see post on there as recent March of this year.

Now I'm worried he's lying and is hiding the fact from me he's married. He NEVER calls me during the day and just randomly texts me. When I do call him he never returns my calls or pick up.

After confronting him about the Facebook page it is no longer available to the public. He claims his ex has access to that page. Oh, I did s reverse search on his phone number and I couldn't find ANYTHING the number is s private number.

What do you think? Does it sound suspicious??

I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I just feel like men just aren't romantically interested in me. The ones that are just want s*x and aren't genuinely interested in me as a person.

Even at points when I've shown interest by flirting and joking around they often times don't show interest.

I just don't know what to do. The other night I was out at a club and this guy approached me and shook my hand. I shook it back and he said I was shaking his hand like I was making a business transaction. And literally made fun of me!

That made me angry because I just naturally have a firm grip.

Also I'm not all that big. I'm small framed so it wasn't really like I was challenging him or something.